Quiz: Is It Time to Break Up?

Entertainment Love and Romance Quiz: Is It Time to Break Up? Will your love last or should you split up? Take this quiz to find out. Share PINTEREST Email Marcus Butt/ Ikon Images/ Getty Images Love and Romance Relationships Divorce Teens LGBTQ Friendship By Stacey Laura Lloyd Stacey Laura Lloyd Twitter University of Pennsylvania Stacey Laura Lloyd is an author with a passion for helping others find happiness and success in their dating lives as well as in their relationships. Learn about our Editorial Process Updated on 10/22/20 1. When I think about the future of my relationship, I typically feel: Very excited about what’s ahead for us. A glimmer of hope about our future together. Nothing in particular, I couldn’t care either way. Pretty pessimistic about it. Correct! Lol, no. 2. How often do you fight with your partner? We rarely have a disagreement. Every now and then we’ll squabble. We argue fairly often. 24/7. We can’t agree on anything. Correct! Lol, no. 3. If you had to sum up your relationship in one word, it would be: Incredible! Pleasant Boring Awful Correct! Lol, no. 4. Do you ever wish that you were in a relationship with someone else? No, my partner is the one for me without a doubt. I don’t think I want someone else, but I’m not 100% sure. Every so often I can’t help but wonder what else is out there. I wish I was with someone else every single day. Correct! Lol, no. 5. Are you your authentic self when you’re with your partner? Yes, I’m 100% myself. I’m true to myself for the most part. Not really, I often find myself playing a role. No, I’m faking the entire time. Correct! Lol, no. 6. Your partner has a new instructor who puts the “hot” in hot yoga. Does this bother you at all? No, I fully and completely trust my partner. Somewhat, but I believe my partner will be faithful. It’s constantly on my mind, and I’m not sure if my partner can be trusted. It’s a nightmare—I don’t trust my partner at all. Correct! Lol, no. 7. Do you enjoy spending time with your partner? Absolutely. I love being together and miss him or her when we’re apart. It’s nice I guess. I can tolerate it when we’re with a large group. Not at all. My partner’s a burden. Correct! Lol, no. 8. Do you feel appreciated by your partner? Yes, every day he or she makes me feel special. Occasionally I feel appreciated in our relationship. Not really, he or she rarely makes me feel valued. No. I actually feel completely taken for granted. Correct! Lol, no. 9. When a total fox asks you out while you’re roaming the dog food aisle, you: Say you’re in a relationship and politely turn him or her down. Decline, but can’t help but think about this person the rest of the day. Give your number, but don’t know how you’re going to proceed. Get his or her number and contact him or her soon after. Correct! Lol, no. 10. In a dream world scenario, what’s the ideal relationship that you’d like to have with your partner? Living happily ever after. Together, I think. More of a friendship. Completely out of each other’s lives. Correct! Lol, no. Quiz: Is It Time to Break Up? You got: Your Relationship Is Going Strong Paul Vozdic/ The Image Bank/ Getty Images Congratulations! Your relationship is going strong, and it’s definitely not time to break up. When looking at your relationship more closely, you can see exactly why you and your partner have a bright future ahead. First, you trust each other completely and have total faith in one another. Second, you feel appreciated and valued by him or her. Third, your relationship is giving you happiness, fulfillment, and joy. You and your partner are in a wonderful place where you can be 100% honest with each other, while also staying true to yourself. Going forward, in order to continue down the exciting path that you’re on, it’s important to keep the lines of communication open. You’ve built a strong and sturdy foundation together, which is going to help your relationship reach new heights in the future. And while there may be some unexpected bumps ahead, it’ll be smooth sailing as long as you stay open, truthful, and communicative with one another. Share Your Results Share Flipboard Email Quiz: Is It Time to Break Up? You got: Your Relationship Needs a Little Work JGI/Jamie Grill/ Blend Images/ Getty Images It’s not time for you and your partner to break up; you’re still on the path toward building a long-lasting relationship. There are many positive aspects to your relationship, as you definitely have faith in your partner, enjoy being around him or her, and have hopes about a future together. You also feel appreciated by him or her and are able to stay true to yourself when you’re with him or her. However, when looking more closely at your relationship, you may still be having some doubts. Is this person right for me? Am I as happy as I could be? It’s completely normal to have these kinds of qualms every now and then. Going forward, it’s important to address these concerns head-on. If you’re looking to enjoy a deeper connection with your partner, you can’t be afraid to talk about tough topics. When you’re forthright with one another, you’ll have a much better understanding of how you truly feel, and from there you can make an informed decision regarding a breakup. Share Your Results Share Flipboard Email Quiz: Is It Time to Break Up? You got: Your Relationship May End Soon Tetra Images/ DigitalVision/ Getty Images It might be time for you and your partner to break up, as there are less-than-ideal elements in your relationship. When looking closely at your connection, it seems that you don’t really enjoy being around him or her one-on-one, you aren’t very hopeful about a future together. Along those lines, you’re not even sure if this person can be trusted, and you can’t help but think about what else is out there for you. It’s important to do some soul-searching and decide if this relationship is worth saving. If you believe it is, then you should tell your partner how you’re feeling and make a commitment to make real changes. You have to be forthright with your partner and let him or her know that you’re having concerns. And from there, once these issues are out in the open, the two of you can create an action plan together in the hopes of rescuing your relationship. However, if the thought of a breakup brings you hope, comfort and relief, it’s time to listen to your gut—and your heart. Share Your Results Share Flipboard Email Quiz: Is It Time to Break Up? You got: It’s Time to Break Up Sally Anscombe/ Moment/ Getty Images It looks like it’s time for you and your partner to break up, and when you reexamine your relationship, you’ll see the many red flags. To start, you don’t trust your partner in the slightest, you basically feel miserable when you’re around this person and you have absolutely no desire for a future with him or her. In fact, your relationship in general is leaving you hopeless, as you’re left feeling totally underappreciated and undervalued. To make matters worse, you’re constantly fighting and bickering with this person, and it’s no wonder you find yourself thinking of other people who you’d like to be with instead. The truth of the matter is that you deserve better. You should be with someone who values you, cares about you, treats you with the utmost respect and is worthy of your trust. And while it may seem difficult, scary or unsettling to end things with your partner, it’s a necessary step on your road to finding a fulfilling, meaningful, and long-lasting relationship. Share Your Results Share Flipboard Email