How to Text the Girl You Like

You are lucky to have the phone number of the girl you like, but what to do next? If you’re too nervous to call, texting is the best way to get her attention. To text the girl you like, you just need to learn how to flirt without being too obvious. If you need some advice on this, read on.

Table of Contents

Start with confidence

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Be unique. Try to send her a message that is different from other guys. Don’t just say hello or send a weird emoji; Find a way to make her laugh or pique her interest. Do whatever makes her think, “There’s something special about this guy. I want to keep talking to him.” Here are some ways to be unique:

Attract her with your wit. Make a funny comment to show her the uniqueness of your outlook on life.
Make her laugh. Show her that you’re smart – even if it’s just through texting.
Tell stories she has never heard before. If you’ve just heard exciting news that you know will make her laugh, tell it.

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Ask an interesting question. Questions will be a great place to start as she will know that you are waiting for an answer. However, you shouldn’t put her in the “how should I say” situation; so ask questions as directly and specifically as possible. Here are some ways to ask questions:

Ask her how her day or week was. If you know she just had an important event, you should ask about it.
Make sure to ask questions that she can easily answer. Don’t ask about the meaning of life, but ask her what she plans to do during the upcoming National Day, for example.
Ask simple questions. Just a short sentence can have great meaning.
Ask open-ended questions. Instead of asking, “What time did you come home from the concert last night?”, you would ask, “How was the musical performance last night?” This will make her share more. If you ask a question that can be answered with one or two words, you may end the conversation before it even begins.

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Pay attention to your grammar. This may sound silly, but you should still make sure to check for spelling and punctuation errors before sending her a message. While you don’t have to sound like a writer when texting, you should let her know that you care about her by composing grammatically correct sentences.

Be careful about capitalizing bullets and using punctuation when needed. Don’t go too far, though, by using lots of semicolons and dashes in your messages. You should reread the message as you normally would before sending an email.

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Don’t try too hard. If you try too hard the first time you text her, she’ll probably notice it. Remember to be yourself, don’t change yourself by saying things that don’t reflect your personality just because you think it will impress her. The worst thing about trying too hard is that she will quickly realize this.

Remember to relax. Don’t send a long message or a message that looks feverish. Only one message should be sent at a time.
Don’t try too hard to be funny. If your sense of humor is natural that’s great, but if you add “hahaha” after your texts to let her know you’re joking then you should reconsider your actions.
Remember that she may also be a little nervous. This will help you feel more comfortable talking. Be yourself and don’t break a sweat trying to say perfect sentences.

Maintain her attention

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Be attractive. Show her you can keep an interesting conversation going on the phone. From there, she’ll think you’re free to continue the conversation when you meet up. Your goal when texting the girl you like is to tell her a little bit about your personality and make her want to know more. If you attract her, she will want to chat with you. Here’s how to do it:

Find a common hobby. While there’s no need to mention politics or religion when texting, it’s a good idea to find a common interest. Whether it’s a TV show or a band, it can help prolong the conversation.
Mention a topic that you love, such as football or cooking. This will get her attention.
Let her know you often spend time on hobbies. When going out with friends or practicing with a band, you should tell her. She will be more interested in you if she knows you have a life of your own.
Show your sense of humor. If she says something funny, don’t just text her “Ha ha” and end the conversation. Instead, respond with something interesting and let her know you can continue the conversation.

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Flirt. Flirting not only makes her want to talk to you, but it also shows that you’re really attracted to her. Just flirt in moderation so she knows you’re interested, but don’t be so obvious that she asks you to stop. Here’s how you can continue the conversation by flirting:

Know how to joke. Show her your innocent side by making a silly comment at the right time. No woman likes a man who takes himself too seriously.
Tease her. If you’re already close to her, tease her delicately and wait for her to tease back. Just make sure she can pick up on the tone of your text and know that you’re joking.
Don’t be afraid to send a wink from time to time. Although you should not use this symbol, sending it at the right time is a great way to flirt.

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Show your interest. There are many simple ways to show your interest in her without being too obvious. Send a message at the right time to show that you’re thinking about her and that she’s important to you. Here’s how you can show her interest in text messages:

Show that you value her opinion. Ask her what she thinks about a certain topic like a new movie coming out or a new restaurant opening.
Ask open-ended questions about her. You shouldn’t ask questions that are too personal, but if you get the chance, ask her what she’s doing or what she likes to do on the weekend.
Shows you remember the content of the conversation. If she tells you there’s a big exam coming up, make an impression by sending a “good luck” text the night before the exam.

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Don’t overdo it. Make sure your feelings are well received and that you don’t attack her with unwelcome messages. You should show concern but avoid becoming clingy, annoying, or embarrassing. Here are some ways to not become too obvious:

Make sure there’s balance in the conversation. If you’ve sent her 10 messages, but only got 1 or 2 replies, you should back off.
Don’t reply to her as soon as you get the message. If she doesn’t reply to your texts until a day later, take it easy. When you fire up a text message just 5 minutes after she replies, it sounds like you’re too eager and even frantic. Stay calm, confident and comfortable.
Avoid using a lot of emojis. While sending an emoji at the right moment is a great way to flirt, don’t overdo it.
Avoid using punctuation or capitalization indiscriminately.

The definitive ending

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Know when to end the conversation. If you want to make her feel interesting then you should stop texting at the right time; otherwise, she will get bored with the nagging texting. Whether she seems busy or you simply have nothing to say, it’s important to know when to stop texting and resume texting next time. Here are some signs that you should stop the conversation:

If she’s usually the one to end a conversation, you should probably avoid texting her for a while until she initiates the conversation.
If she only replies with a one-word text, then she’s probably busy or not interested enough to chat with you.
If it takes her a few hours or even days to respond to your texts, then maybe it’s time to give up. You should accept the fact that she has a life of her own and you should get back to your own. However, do not be sad, let this go smoothly and always think positively. Another opportunity to interact with her may come soon.

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Leave a positive message. You should always leave the conversation open; That way, it’s easy for you to chat again. This is simply letting her know you’re looking forward to seeing her or what you plan to do that evening so the two of you can continue talking about the topic. Here’s what you should do to end the conversation:

Let her know you hope she’s always happy with what she’s doing and where she’s going.
Find a subtle way to let her know you think about her.
Text “good morning” and “good night” at the right times of the day. (Of course you should avoid doing this often at first, make sure the love is both sides. Otherwise you will become clingy and/or annoying)
Let her know where you are going. Maybe she’ll take that as a sign you want to see her.

Advice

Don’t text her every second of the day and expect her to respond. Remember that she also has many other friends.
If she doesn’t respond to you right away, be patient. Don’t text her a question mark to see what she’s up to.
Take note of how long the conversation usually lasts. If the conversations are long, maybe a few hours, then she probably likes you! If you think she’s making a similar effort to keep the conversation going, that’s also a good sign. Don’t forget to take a break from always texting her first. If she texts back after a few days, it means she’s looking forward to talking to you or is thinking about you. If possible, note how much she texts or how much she texts with other friends to see if you’re special to her. Try to let her know that you text her more than others when possible; This will make her feel special!

Make sure not to reply immediately or text too much as you will become clingy.

Steps

Start with confidence

Maintain her attention

The definitive ending

Advice

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