How to Stimulate Guys With Text

You like a guy but don’t know what to do next? Or your lover is far away? Either way, you can use texting to remind him of you. This is not difficult to do. As long as the content of the message is attractive, he will not stop thinking about you.

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Begin the usual greeting. You can start with simple words like “Hey” or “Hi”. Alternatively, you can subtly compliment and say something like, “Hi handsome!”

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Wait for the answer. If he’s interested, he’ll reply and you can continue texting. Otherwise you should ignore this guy!

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Ask him what he’s doing. Start the conversation by asking him what he’s doing so there’s a chance to talk about what you’re doing for a little while. For now, however, you should text something like, “So what are you doing tonight?” or “How are you these days?”

If you feel confident, you can compliment him. Instead of asking him what he’s doing, you can text him “Hope I’m not bothering you, but I miss you! Hope it can. :)”. If he likes you, he will let the other person know that he likes such texts.

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Use the present activity to initiate a conversation. After he asks what you’re up to (or you’re willing to let him know), you can use it as a way to start flirting. For example:

If it’s late at night and you’re about to go to bed, you can say you’re lying in bed but having trouble sleeping because there’s no one to cuddle with.
If it’s cold, you can say you’re shaking, or something like that. This is the opening sentence to suggest he “warm you up”.
If you don’t do anything, you can text that you’re “…thinking about this hot guy…”.

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See if he gets the hint or not. If he does, he’ll respond by saying he wants to be around to “help you fall asleep/warm you up,” or discreetly ask who you’re thinking about.

If he still doesn’t understand the intention, you should not give up! Just to be a little more clear. For example, if you were referring to feeling cold, you could say, “If you were here, I wouldn’t be this cold… :)”. Then he will visualize the scene beside you.

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Talk about how you feel. After making him think/text about wanting to be with you, it’s time to let your partner’s imagination run wild about meeting you. You can try texting with the following:

Mention what you’re going to do with him. You can be vague (like being in general about cuddling), or specific (like wanting to kiss him slowly).
Mention what you’re wearing (whether you’re actually wearing it or not, he can’t tell). As noted above, you can subtly refer to it (“I wish I could see what you’re wearing…”) or more specifically, what you like to wear to bed.
Hints on what you’ll do with him in the future. Giving hints about what you’ll say next time you see him can spark arousal. (Just make sure it’s what you really want before you promise anything.)

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End the conversation while he’s still excited. Don’t let the conversation fade before it’s over; Stop talking while it’s still attractive and interesting, then he’ll think about you all day/night.

Advice

Nighttime is a good time to text your crush. Then he won’t be distracted, has time to text, and you’ll be the first person on his mind the next morning.
Be yourself. The way you text has an impact on how a guy views you as a person.
When a guy accidentally says “Goodbye” during texting, just respond like him, and when like if he texts back, you shouldn’t ask where he went and why he left. If he asks you what you’re doing, even if you’re not, you can still imagine.
Be casual, and don’t annoy him by sending him a blank message if he doesn’t text back; Maybe he’s thinking about how to respond.
If he likes you, take the time to text him back. If he doesn’t answer you shouldn’t bother him. The other party has the right to reply to the message or not.
Don’t be too casual, unless you’re ready for such a relationship.
If he doesn’t like this type of dialogue, you can change the subject and try again next time!
Short and concise messaging. Don’t text at length, and try to focus on the other person as well as yourself. When the conversation starts to fade, you should stop and wait for the next time.
Don’t send a lot of texts before he responds, and don’t show enthusiasm.
Don’t combine multiple sentences in one message before he can reply. This will put him under pressure. You can text something like “Hey, where did that handsome guy go? ;)”, and wait until he texts back.
Don’t be too eager with new acquaintances. This only makes the opponent uncomfortable.

Warning

Think carefully before sending your hot pictures. Not only does this conduct constitute a crime of transmitting child pornography in some areas (if you are underage), it can also put you at serious emotional risk. It is best not to send such pictures to anyone, because you never know who is using the phone of the person you like.

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