How to Please Women

Help her relax. The first thing you need to make sure that a woman can enjoy being herself in bed is to make her comfortable. Try to do whatever it takes to make her happy, even if it’s against you. Doing this will help her get over the initial stress and ease her anxiety. Women often when faced with stress will reduce sex drive. They simply can’t enjoy themselves when they’re stressed. Do whatever it takes to make sure your girl is relaxed and comfortable.

• Help her with chores around the house. Do simple chores like helping her wash the dishes or cook dinner. Women often appreciate a man’s participation in household chores. They really appreciate it, feel more secure and loved. When a woman feels valued and loved, her sex drive is also higher.
• Give her a gentle back massage. She will especially love it if you use balms, massage oils, and scented candles. Help her feel like a queen, but don’t overdo it. Let her know that you enjoy making her feel good.
• Prepare her for a romantic bath with candles, sweet scents and relaxing music. Not all women like this style, but they certainly appreciate such an unexpected yet perfect expression of love and romance.
• Never pressure or force her to have sex. If she’s not ready, never try to force it. It won’t get you anywhere.

Always make time for foreplay (to help her get ready). Foreplay helps her body get ready for the next sex. Foreplay is very important for both men and women. It usually ranges from something as simple as stroking her legs and breasts to deep kisses and tongue-in-cheek teasing on sensitive parts of her body. A lot of people like foreplay like slapping her butt, swap positions, bite, or use your tongue.

• Try to say words that excite her. Don’t go too far and talk about things that are too weird unless you know she’s receptive. Tell her how much you want to undress her, slowly, how you want to enjoy her body with your lips. Tell her about your desire to explore every inch of her body with your tongue. Pay close attention to her gasps, moans, and movements (you need to know how she’s reacting). Your words should focus only on your desire to make her comfortable, not on yourself.
• Explore her entire body with her fingertips. Move gently in areas you know will be sensitive. Do not touch directly, you should tease a little first. Rubbing around areas that can be pleasurable until she begs you to touch her. Even at this point, you should just rub her gently and then continue to tease her. This move will drive her crazy and make sure she’s really ready to jump in.

Learn more about female anatomy. When a woman is sexually unsatisfied, it’s usually because you haven’t satisfied her properly. Men receive pleasure from penile stimulation, so it may be logical for women to receive pleasure from vaginal stimulation, but this is not always the case. Some women can only “climax” when stimulated by the clitoris – a hidden part of the vagina. Learn more about the vagina and find ways to stimulate this sensitive organ effectively to bring satisfaction to both yourself and your partner.

Explore her sensitive areas. There are other areas of the female body that are also very sensitive and can provide pleasure when stimulated. Try to use your tongue in these areas, kiss them or rub them with your fingers. Some women even like to feel a little pain in these areas, so you can also try pinching, biting, scratching, and lightly hitting those areas.

• Sensitive areas are usually the back or edge of the neck, nipples (and the area around the breasts), abdomen, buttocks, and inner thighs.

Experiment with variation and rhythm. There is an old saying that “how many times is not important, what matters is how”. Women have several nerve points in the vagina, so when there is penetration, it is the change in movement that gives her pleasure. Try different rhythms, pressure, and penetration angles to find out which positions make her respond the most. Every woman is different so you will never know what will work, but if you just move like a jackhammer, she will not be able to achieve the same pleasure as you.

Oral stimulation control. Oral sex can be pleasurable, but some men don’t pay much attention to it. Women love this way of making love as much as men (if not more). If you really want to impress her, you should hone your technique and practice often. Find out more or even ask her to show you how. The clitoris will be the focal point, but don’t forget the other parts of the vagina. Teasing her clitoris then moving to other positions in the “pleasure zone” will make her beg you to come back and stimulate her clitoris. Take a slow approach and do it fast from the start. Don’t end it too quickly, let her know that you love making her happy. After giving her pleasure, continue to lick quickly and gradually increase the speed. Her butt may push up as she lifts herself off the bed. Stick to the rhythm and make sure you don’t forget her clitoris. When she comes to the top, her body will lift up, almost hugging your head and gripping you. Her vaginal muscles will tighten, her skin will also turn red as she gradually relaxes. Be careful not to overstimulate the clitoris after she climaxes. A lot of women become more sensitive after climax and this time if the clitoris extra stimulation will make her uncomfortable.

Explore her thoughts. Make sure she knows that you really want to make her comfortable and always get to know her as much as possible. When she feels comfortable sharing with you her innermost desires, she will openly tell you things she’s never told anyone else, listen and make it happen. come true!

Swap the position of the party owner. Some women like to be submissive during sex, while others like to be in control. All women are different and you shouldn’t believe websites that say they have real answers to your woman questions. Give her a chance to try out both roles and see which she prefers. Even if she enjoys this kind of lovemaking, that doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to switch places now and again!

Always keep it fresh. Making love in the same predictable and routine pattern is bound to be boring and unsatisfying. Don’t let your sex life become monotonous, you should make her feel excited and happy for the next time. Try new positions, new places, and different times of day and change the roles you play in lovemaking.

Let’s talk to her! If you feel you still can’t get what you want, you should talk to her! Communication is key to any relationship and you shouldn’t feel embarrassed discussing these issues. Your sex life can only improve if you talk about the things you both feel good about and what you still haven’t done. When you have overcome your initial worries, you will feel so lucky that you shared it with your partner. Focus on what she wants, focus on the action that makes her feel good instead of yourself and your woman will respond to you in the same way. Not only will your sex life improve, but you may also notice changes in your relationship in general.