How to Make a Girl Like You in High School

Always be yourself! If you try to be someone else, she might not like it. If you want her to notice you, you have to let her see something interesting from the bottom of your soul. Do not imitate others or follow trends that soon bloom and fade; Be comfortable with who you really are and confidence will get you what you want. Girls usually like guys who are different, confident and not afraid to express themselves.

• Don’t look desperate. Girls like attention, but they don’t like guys who are too hungry and seem desperate. Most girls are afraid to take the initiative, so you need to show your feelings, but don’t go too far. Don’t see her as the only attention to avoid making it too obvious.
• Don’t brag. Many guys think that bragging is the right thing to do, but this is not the right approach. The problem is that she might think you’re too cocky or too self-centered. It’s okay to show off your talents, but don’t try to just get her attention.
• Expressed naturally. Don’t stress about little things like “I hope she likes her shirt!”. You just need to stay calm and be nice to her. Girls usually like guys who show naturalness and improvise well. If you find it hard to stay calm around her, see her as a friend, not someone you’re thinking about. Don’t be weird. Don’t say “Hi baby” or something like that.

Pay attention to your appearance. Perhaps you think that she likes a certain type of person, such as rebellious or scholarly. Even though she has her own interests, you shouldn’t “be” that type of person. You’re better off just taking care of your appearance, being eye-catching and taking care of your body. When you do these things, you won’t have to worry about how you look to her. Your looks attract her, but your personality is what holds her back.

• Regularly shower, wash your face and wash your hair. Shower every day, wash your face twice a day, and wash your hair every other day. If your skin is acne-prone, you can apply many home care methods. For example, apply honey or lemon on your face. Using citrus fruits is effective. If you often touch your face, your face will be oily, leading to acne. Pay attention to the hairstyle even though you choose to style your hair messy.
• Don’t overwhelm her with perfume or body spray. The ads mislead us: most girls want you to not “smell,” not peach or natural. Don’t worry about choosing perfume or body spray. If personal hygiene is frequent, you just need to use a simple deodorant product is enough.
• Stay fit if you deem it necessary. If you need to lose weight, you should make an effort to do it: find a sport that works for you. Swimming, jogging, or cycling, for example, are all good choices. Even a 15-minute walk a day is a perfect start. However, no matter what you do, you shouldn’t TAKE OVER. She may not like a burly boyfriend like the giant Hulk.
• Choose a healthy diet. Instead of eating greasy hamburgers and sweets, you’ll be adding a healthy dose of vegetables, fruits, and protein to your diet. This way, you will not only feel better, but also have a better body.

Become a likable guy. In fact, girls don’t like the cocky guys you see in movies or on TV. Or if they do, they quickly realize it’s impossible to build a real relationship with this type of person even if you’re already close. The girls who deserve to be pursued just want a nice guy who respects her. Be kind, polite and courteous. These things help you build a relationship and make her want to be around you more.

• Being a gentleman means being more mature. Don’t be too pushy with her and don’t joke about her body or other parts. Show her you’re a decent, respectful, well-behaved and classy guy. Please open the door for her and the others. Offer advice and guidance to those in need. When talking about other people, you only say what you are comfortable saying in front of them.
• Stand by her side. If she gets into a dilemma – a fight or argument – be there to mediate or support her. Stand up for her when others talk bad about her, and you should do the same with others.
• Become generous. Don’t think you are the navel of the universe. Always be ready to help others and good words will quickly spread to let others know you have the good will to make a difference with good deeds. Try volunteering, donating blood or participating in charity activities.

Improve the little things that you can. Love is the wonderful thing that makes you want to be a better person. Not just for her, but for yourself. Love will give you more motivation to admit your mistakes and shortcomings and start working to improve or make yourself better.

• If you have a hot temper, you should try to stay calm. Girls usually don’t like guys who suddenly get angry and start a fight. Note what makes you angry and try to avoid it. Even though it’s difficult, you should still react differently when you’re angry.
• Improve communication skills. If you want to impress her, you need to talk to her regularly. Talk about good topics, ask interesting questions, tell funny/characteristic stories, and stay calm when you’re around her.
• Learn a skill that no one else in class has and show it off when you’re around her, but don’t make it too obvious. Pretend to show off to your friends. Some ways to show off your skills are performing magic tricks, tossing balls, and playing musical instruments. It doesn’t matter which activity you choose to do. Your personality will be shown through that action.
• Pursue other interests or passions. Life is really interesting and there is so much to learn. To keep yourself from thinking about her, it’s best to take up extracurriculars like engineering, sports, or ancient history. When she knows you have a good understanding of her interests, she will definitely be impressed.