How to Make a Girl Feel Special Through Texting

Whether she’s the person of your dreams or your lover, you still get a strange fluttering feeling when your partner sees your name pop up in the notification. But what would you text to make her shy and smile? Today’s wikiHow will suggest sweet texts that will melt a woman’s heart and show how much you care for her!

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Mention one of her favorite topics.

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Show that you care about what she likes. Maybe a movie, song, or some delicious sushi shop. Whatever she mentioned, try it out. Then, text her about how you feel. She will feel special and begin to discuss it further. If you’re not sure what your crush likes, you can check out her profile on social media for inspiration, as well as ask her for recommendations on books, movies, or songs to watch.

For example, if she is passionate about a certain sport, find out about a player or athlete she admires and say: “Bui Tien Dung just gained a new fan today. Guess who?”
Check out the content she recommended and then text her: “I just finished reading the book you talked about the other day. I have to go buy the next one right away.”
Try one of her hobbies and retell it, such as: “I want to confess something. I tried cooking because I know you are a good cook. And… everything got messed up.”

Compliment things other than physical appearance.

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Make her shy by flattering her a little. Sweet and sincere compliments will never go astray. But if you really want to make her laugh and build a connection, you can try praising her for something else besides looks. Think about what makes her special to you, and say that you appreciate her energy, personality, or intelligence.

“I really like your way of thinking. Don’t tell me you wrote these bold ideas yourself?”
“I have to admit one thing, that you are much funnier than I am. 😂”
“Not everyone has the ability to bring joy to people around like you do. It is truly a gift from God.”
“You are very beautiful, but I think what attracts me the most is your soul.”

Compilation of a list of reasons why she is great.

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Describe 3-10 things that you love about her. If there are more reasons, feel free to state them. You can talk about a moment you both shared, a funny thing she did or something cool she taught you. Here is an example:

5 reasons why you are the best:
- You make the best coffee in the world.
- You’re the one who helped me know how to dress better.
- He has gorgeous hair.
- You are the kindest person I have ever known.
- You are extremely brave (for daring to speak up to protect me against the bad guys).

Say you can’t stop thinking about her.

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Remind her that she is always on your mind. Your partner will feel special knowing that you care so much about her that you sometimes think about her throughout the day. This method is appropriate if she and you are dating or you two are very close, otherwise it might sound a bit overdone. You can try the following message:

“Last night I dreamed of you. 😍”
“I’ve been trying to concentrate, but I still can’t stop thinking about you.”
“I kept thinking about the time to kiss you again.”
“Everyone in the library started looking at me strangely. I just realized that I’ve been grinning to myself all this while thinking about you.”

Send encouraging messages.

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Show her that you’re always there for her in times of trouble. After having a bad day, she must be in dire need of encouragement. Cheer her up and remind her that she’s amazing with a simple text around the message: “You can do it!” ^{[1] X Research Source}

Remind her of a time when she was extremely successful, like: “You did a great job at that presentation. It’s nothing to do with you this time!”
Talk about what awaits her after the difficult situation is over: “Will you take me out for bubble tea tomorrow to celebrate after I finish my exam?”
Text her simply to say you’re here for her: “Let me know if you need any help with anything. I believe you can do it!”

Mention a memory with her that you like.

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Let her know that your time with her is memorable. Think of an activity you two did together, or a moment when she did something cute. Talk about where you’ve been, what you’ve done together, and most of all, how you feel about these memories. You can also ask her if she remembers the occasion. ^{[2] X Research Source}

Mention your first impression of her. For example: “When I first met you, I thought, ‘There’s no way this girl is human. How can there be such a beautiful and talented person in the world?”
You may even become specifically nostalgic, especially if you’ve been together for quite some time. For example: “Do you remember the time when we went to listen to music in Da Lat? You asked for a song to give me and I really appreciate it.”
Or you can mention a happy memory like: “Do you remember the time when I drove you to school but in a hurry, I bumped into a load of mixed rice paper? At that time, we both didn’t bring enough money to pay, so we had to call my father. Shame death! When I got home my dad threatened to confiscate my bike too, haha.”

Send her a good morning and good night text.

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She’ll know she’s special when she’s the first and last thought of your day. In the morning, you can text her that you’re looking forward to seeing her, or simply wish her a good day. As you get ready for bed, tell her she’s on your mind. Even if you’re both dating or you know your partner likes you, it wouldn’t be too much of a stretch to say that you hope to dream about her. ^{[3] X Research Source} Try out some of these:

“Good morning. I can’t wait to see you.”
“Have a great day (like yourself).”
“I’m thinking about you. I hope that you will dream of me tonight 😊.”
“Good night. I’m so happy because I think about you every night before I go to sleep.”
“No matter how beautiful your dreams are, they can’t compare to you, but sleep well and dream well.”

Ask her honest questions.

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Deep questions show that you value her thoughts and opinions. If you’re in a relationship, she’ll feel heard and special when you ask about her life, dreams, and goals. If you don’t know your partner well, ask about her favorite things or events she talks about. ^{[4] X Research Sources}

In everyday conversation, you should ask specifically, “How was your presentation?” instead of asking general questions: “How was your day?”
To the person in your dream you don’t know well, ask something like, “What are your three favorite things in life?”
In a deeper conversation, you might ask, “Is there something you’ve always dreamed of? Why haven’t you made it yet?” ^{[5] X Trusted Source Greater Good in Action Go to Source}

Tell her that she is the ideal sex partner for you.

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Use this message to let her know how much you enjoy spending time with her. This is similar to confessing that you see her as a “slut”. Choose something serious, like growing old together or traveling the world if you’re a couple. But if she’s your crush, or you just want to tone down your romantic feelings, you can choose to do something silly, like surviving the apocalypse together.

You can even use this message to lead the way: “You’re the only one I want to sing karaoke with all night. Can we date?”
Pick a funny scenario and say you want to be on a team with her: “If I had to choose a friend to live with on a deserted island, I would choose you. You know a lot of great life hacks.”
If you know this feeling is mutual, say, “There’s no one else I want to be with every day, but you.”

Send her the digital version of the classic gift.

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This cute gesture is an easy way to make her laugh. Send her a few emojis of classic gifts like flowers or chocolates. Even if it’s not a real gift, it’s a great way to show you care. You can also say, “This message is like a promise that I will give you a real gift in real life.”

Example: “Knock knock.” When she replies, “Who?”, text back: “Someone gave you flowers 🌹🌹🌹.”
If the two of you are far away or the house is not very close, you can text: “If I am there, I will give you a box of 🍫.”

Send a song that reminds you of her.

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Music is a romantic way to express how you feel to your partner. You can create a playlist or send her each song that reminds you of her. If possible, send in some music you both listened to together. Getting together to create a shared playlist is also a great way to start a conversation.

Send a song with the message: “I think of you every time I listen to this.”
Or something like, “Can this be our own song?”
You could also say, “This song makes me feel as happy as being with you.”
Associate the song with a memorable memory: “Do you remember the time we danced at Tuan’s birthday party?”

Share with her moments of the day.

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Sending a photo update will make her feel important and present in your life. By sharing photos of the day, you’re doing two things. First, she’ll feel like the person you want to turn to when something good or interesting happens in your life. Second, the picture you send will make her think of you, which is especially effective if you’re in the middle of a fight. However, you need to moderate it a bit by sending only 1 picture a day, and if she also responds with a photo, you can be too aggressive.

“This is me when I think of you.” Match this message with your cutest or best selfie.
“I can’t think of anyone but you to share this with.” You can include a funny or candid photo.
If the other person likes animals, you can take a photo of a feral cat: “I just came across a really cute cat.”

Send simple thank you messages.

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Write a text that honestly says she’s important to you. It sounds easy at first, but you will never go wrong with a sincere attitude. Talk about a moment when you realized how important she is to you, or just be simple and concise like, “I really appreciate you!” Expressing gratitude can even promote positive emotions within the speaker himself. ^{[6] X Harvard Medical Schop Trusted Source Go to Source}

Let her know that you appreciate the little things she does: “Thank you for bringing me lunch. If it weren’t for you, I’d be so busy working that I would forget to eat.”
Talk about how she helped you through a difficult situation, for example: “If it weren’t for your help that time, I wouldn’t have finished the report in time. I appreciate you very much.”
You can also talk about how she affects you: “You are the sunflower that guides me to do the right thing. You make me feel understood and I appreciate that.”

Say you miss her.

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Talk about how you feel when she’s not around. Sometimes, texting “I miss you” is the best way to say “You are so important to me!”. Just avoid abuse so she doesn’t feel overwhelmed by texting “miss you” every 15 minutes. ^{[7] X Research Sources}

“Nonsense, I miss you. The sky is also sad, but it has become gray.”
“The class without you is so boring. See you on Friday!”
“Miss you and your lovely dimples.”
“I’m drinking coffee with my friends at Leng Keng – our real shop. Just wanted to say that I miss your crunchy laugh every time my mouth is covered with macchiato.”

Ask her for advice.

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This message will show that you trust her and consider her as your soul mate. We often feel special knowing that our words are taken seriously by someone. If you know her well or you’re both dating, ask for advice on serious matters. However, if the two of you are not close, you should only ask her opinion about trivial things.

You can consult the following: “You go to restaurants a lot. Can you point me to a place that sells good sushi?” ^{[8] X Research Sources}
Keep things light, for example: “I want to take your advice. Should I start working as a professional singer?
Ask for help in a serious situation like: “Hey, what do you think I should tell Nghia about that rude statement?”

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