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When you have a crush on someone, it’s completely normal to wonder if they have feelings for you. Luckily, you can tell how they feel by paying attention to how they behave around you. If the person you’re keeping an eye on really likes you, they’ll seem nervous to talk to you, ask if you already have a boyfriend, or make excuses to ask you out. You shouldn’t try to speculate on his or her actions, though; remember you can always be upfront and ask if they like you or not!
Steps
Online exchange
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Pay attention to the level of interaction between you and your partner on social networks. If he has feelings for you, he will probably follow you on all social media platforms to know more about you. Watch to see if they message you on Instagram, tag you in Facebook posts, or engage with you on other social networks regularly. [1] X Research Source
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Notice when they text or call you. If your crush only texts you late at night or when they’re bored, they may not care as much about you as you think. People who really like you will text or call every time they think of you, such as when they have free time during the day and want to know what you’re up to, or they want to share something interesting with you. . [2] X Research Source
- If your crush texts you in the morning, that’s a good sign – it means you’re the first person they think of when they wake up.
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Notice how many times they text or call you. People who really care about you will always want to talk to you. If you and your partner often have long conversations, or even just send a few short texts throughout the day, your partner probably has deep feelings for you. [3] X Research Sources
- Even so, strings can also be a sign that your partner sees you as a good friend.
John Keegan
Marriage and Love Expert
John Keegan is a New York-based marriage and love expert and motivational speaker. He runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his knowledge of marriage and love, attraction and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and gives seminars on marriage and love internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York and Men’s Health.
John Keegan
Marriage and Love Expert
Marriage and Love Expert
If you want to know if the person likes you or not, be patient. Don’t rush to pressure them by expressing your feelings as that will backfire. Instead, stay calm, show them, feel your presence, and know that you are carefree. If you’re in too much of a hurry and they see you’re up to something, they’ll stay away from you.
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Does he or she often reply to your messages? It could be a text message or a message on a social network. If you text your crush and they don’t often respond, they probably don’t have feelings for you. Check to see if the person usually replies to your texts, even if they don’t reply right away. [4] X Research Sources
- Note that the person may not reply to your message as soon as it is received. If they reply after a few hours, it’s still a sign they like you; however, if they don’t reply for days, they probably don’t have a crush on you.
- However, don’t rely on this trait to determine if the person likes you or not, because replying to messages is also just a polite gesture.
Read body language
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Notice if the person seems nervous, worried, or excited to see you. Depending on the person’s personality, they will show signs of nervousness or energy when around you. A sign of nervousness means that they want to make a good impression on you and are afraid of saying or doing something wrong, while excitement is when they are excited about meeting you. [5] X Research Sources
- For example, if the person is confused when talking to you or is more restless than usual, they probably have a crush on you.
- Sweating or blushing is also a sign that they’re a little nervous around you.
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Focus on how the two of you make eye contact. This will vary depending on the person’s personality. If they are shy, they will shy away from making eye contact and often look away. On the contrary, the person will boldly look you in the eye if they like you. [6] X Research Sources
- Pay attention to your partner’s pupils when they look at you – if the pupils dilate, that’s a sign that they like you.
- The eye contact between two people will depend on the personality of each person; So be aware that this is not a surefire way to determine if your partner has feelings for you.
- If he likes you, he will try to sneak a peek at you whenever he can.
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Do they lightly touch you to show affection? This is a familiar way of showing affection. If the person playfully pushes you or pats you, they are letting you know how they feel. [7] X Research Sources
- For example, when you’re hanging out with your partner and if they playfully touch you or give you a light squeeze on the shoulder, they probably have feelings for you.
- Note that this could also be a gesture that the person usually makes when around other people.
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Look at your partner’s feet to see if they’re pointing towards you. When people are attracted to others, they often imitate each other’s body language and stand facing each other. The next time you’re talking to your crush, glance at their shoes to see which direction their feet are facing. While this could imply that they like you, it could also just be the way they stand; Therefore, you should not pay too much attention to this feature. [8] X Research Sources
- If the person moves the chair towards you, that’s also a good sign.
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Notice how the person leans toward you during the conversation. When we pay attention to someone, our bodies naturally move closer to them. As you talk to your partner, whether standing or sitting, notice if they lean toward you to determine their feelings for you. [9] X Research Source
- It could be something as simple as sitting across from you and resting your elbows on the table while talking to you.
- Body language can sometimes be hard to tell, and you shouldn’t guess your partner’s feelings just because they lean toward you.
Talking about meaningful things
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They may like you when they want to know if you are single or not. If the person likes you, they’ll want to know if you’re eyeing or getting to know someone else. Pay attention to whether your partner asks you if you’ve dated anyone, as well as questions about the person of your dreams. [10] X Research Source
- He may find out indirectly and ask your friends if you already have a lover.
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They ask many questions about your life and hobbies. That means they want to know more about you because they really want to get to know you. Notice if the person listens when you talk about your life and remembers the details you told them. [11] X Research Source
- For example, they will ask about your favorite food, do you have a pet, or what your favorite TV show is.
- It could also mean that the person wants to be your best friend.
- If you’ve told your crush that you enjoy skating and they plan to take you to the rink, that’s a sign that they’re listening to what you have to say.
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Your partner may like you if they reveal their future plans to you. Your partner won’t be afraid to talk about the travel destination they want to visit, the career they want to pursue, or what they want in the next 5 years. If your partner tells you about their future plans, or asks about your future, it could be a sign that they really like you. [12] X Research Source
- For example, if the person says, “I plan to major in Engineering when I go to college, what are you going to major in?”, they want to have deeper conversations with you.
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Listen to what they have to say and notice if they tell you personal things that they don’t tell anyone else. In case the person likes you, this is a sign that he is comfortable around you and wants to get to know you better. Start a conversation with that person and see if they reveal any secrets of themselves without anyone knowing, it’s because they trust you. [13] X Research Source
- They may share with you important topics such as family stories or previous relationships, or little information they have never told anyone else.
- Even if the person doesn’t have feelings for you, this is still a sign that they trust you.
Observe how that person behaves in life
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They find excuses to ask you out. If he really likes you, he’ll want to spend a lot of time with you. For example, go out with friends and family and spend time alone with you. Notice how often your partner asks you out and finds ways to connect with you when you’re with other people. [14] X Research Source
- For example, if your partner invites you to dance or bring you food at a party, it means they like you.
- If your crush makes excuses to see you, such as studying for an exam or spending time at work or school, it could mean that they really like you and want to spend a lot of time with you.
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Pay attention to the actions of your partner’s friends when they see you. If your partner reveals their feelings for you to their friends, those friends will behave very differently when they see you. When you’re out with your partner and their friends, notice if their friends tease them or flatter them when they see you’re listening. [15] X Research Source
- Friends will say nice things about them in front of you to get you to reciprocate their feelings.
- Some of his or her friends will hint that he likes you, such as suggesting that you ask him out on a private date.
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He is attentive to your needs. This is another sign that they listen attentively and care about you. If you tell your crush that you’re cold, hungry, or in need of something, pay attention to their reaction. If they try to accommodate your needs, it shows they care about helping you feel better. [16] X Research Source
- For example, if your partner gives you a coat when you’re cold or buys you porridge when you’re sick, it’s a clear sign that they care about you.
- While that person is interested in you is a good sign, it doesn’t guarantee that they like you too.
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Observe how they become more organized because of you. This includes private spaces such as homes or cars and their appearance. If you visit your crush and they’ve cleaned up their room or taken time to take care of themselves, they’re probably trying to impress you. [17] X Research Source
- He or she can take care of himself by styling his hair, making sure his body is clean and smelling good, or choosing nice clothes.
- If your crush really likes you, they’ll want to show off their best side to prove they’re decent people.
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They smile or laugh at your jokes. People who like each other are often attracted to each other’s personalities and humor. When you make a joke or say something funny, pay attention to the person’s reaction. If they smile when you laugh or laugh at every funny thing you say, it’s because they like your sense of humour. [18] X Research Sources
- If the person smiles or laughs when you say something funny, it could mean that they have a crush on you, or they just think you’re a funny person.
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They are playful and flirty when talking to you. For example, they call you funny nicknames, tease you or joke with you. Each person will have a slightly different way of flirting, but if the person is playfully playful and affectionate, they are trying to get your attention and show their affection. [19] X Research Source
- Flirting can also be a light punch on the arm or making a sarcastic but not malicious comment.
- If your partner is bragging, this could be another sign that they want to get your attention.
- Many people have the natural ability to flirt when talking to other people, so that person can do the same when around anyone.
Advice
- Be bold enough to ask if your crush likes you or ask a friend to ask for you.
- Trust yourself! If you have a good feeling for someone, don’t hesitate!
- If the person wants to introduce you to their friends, that’s a sign they like you.
- If you catch the person looking at you often, they probably have feelings for you.
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This article was co-written by John Keegan. John Keegan is a New York-based marriage and love expert and motivational speaker. He runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his knowledge of marriage and love, attraction and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and gives seminars on marriage and love internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York and Men’s Health.
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When you have a crush on someone, it’s completely normal to wonder if they have feelings for you. Luckily, you can tell how they feel by paying attention to how they behave around you. If the person you’re keeping an eye on really likes you, they’ll seem nervous to talk to you, ask if you already have a boyfriend, or make excuses to ask you out. You shouldn’t try to speculate on his or her actions, though; remember you can always be upfront and ask if they like you or not!
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