How to Know If an Introverted Girl Likes You

It’s possible that a small group of her close friends know that she has a crush. She may not dare to tell you right away, but her friends know it all! A small group of friends meant the world to her because they were the people she was closest to. ^[1] Their attitudes may be slightly different when they see you nearby, such as giggling or whispering as you pass. They don’t mean anything bad, they just want to help their friend.

• Get to know her friends. They can help you learn more about her and make her more comfortable around you.
• Maybe her friends will tell you that she likes you.
• Ask her friends to ask her out so you can hang out together.

Playing with hair is a classic gesture that shows a girl is nervous. Do you notice her looking down and tucking her hair behind her ear every time you pass, or does she twist a lock of hair around her finger when you talk to her? She gets nervous around you because she likes you, and she plays with her hair to banish that nervousness.

• If you know she doesn’t mind touching, gently lift her hand from her hair. This sweet gesture can help her relax and evoke feelings of romance.
• Next time you see her, compliment her hair. Her beauty radiates from the inside out, so don’t hesitate to tell her that!

You don’t have an illusion, she’s everywhere . If an introverted girl likes you, she may intentionally hang out at places you like to go or take the same route you usually take. This is a way for her to get closer to you and muster up the courage to talk to you. She is forcing herself to step out of her comfort zone to create opportunities to run into you by chance. ^[2]

• Stop and say hi to her! She tried to go where you usually go for a reason, so don’t be afraid to take the initiative to step forward.

Looking people in the eye isn’t always easy for an introverted girl. If she looks you in the eye while talking, that’s a good sign. Maybe she likes you and is trying to communicate with you. ^[3]

• Look her in the eye and let her know that you love her too.
• When you talk to her, imagine she’s the only person in the room. This can help keep you from being distracted.

Social interaction isn’t her forte, so she’ll probably find information on her own. Before she steps closer to you, she may search for you on the internet or browse your social media profiles. It’s not that she’s stalking, but is trying to figure out what to say when talking to you. For her, information is power! If she mentions the details you post on Instagram or Facebook, she probably likes you. ^[4]

If she likes you, she will smile easily. She laughs out loud when she hears all of your jokes, funny comments, or stories, even if they’re not so funny. Just being with you makes her happy, so she won’t have a hard time smiling when you’re joking, because she likes you. ^[5]

As an introvert, she will rarely share details about herself with others. If she tells you about her hobbies, interests, and favorite things, then she probably likes you. Her interests may be a little out of the ordinary, but don’t let her down! She is confiding to you things that only her loved ones know. ^[6]

• Ask about her hobbies and interests.
• Show interest in her interests by asking if you could try joining her someday.

If she’s open with you, chances are she likes you. Introvert girls don’t just want a give and take relationship, but more than that. She is looking for someone who can understand her, so she will probe and open up to you. Maybe she tells you something she’s never told anyone or confides in you about her feelings and asks if you’ve ever felt the same way. If she tells you one of her secrets, she’s definitely in love with you. ^[7]

• Listen attentively when she speaks. Introverts don’t open up to anyone easily, so love what she confides in you.
• Respond by telling her a little bit about yourself. She wants to peek into your world just as much as you want to peek into hers!

Phone calls are an introvert’s enemy, but if she likes you, she’s ready to face her fears. She will answer all your calls – fly out of her comfort zone just to say hello. Don’t ignore this, because that’s how she shows her affection for you. ^[8]

• At this point, if she calls you, that’s a big step for her!
• If she spends many hours texting back and forth with you, she must have fallen for you!
• Schedule a phone call with her to help her feel more comfortable. This way, she will have time to prepare and not be embarrassed by a random call.