How to Get a Girlfriend via Facebook Chat

Make sure she’s single. If you want to get a girlfriend through Facebook chat, the first thing you need to do is make sure she is not a “owned flower”. It may not be obvious that you go to her profile to see if she is single, but sometimes, things are not so simple. You’ll probably have to dig deeper than that. For example, she might be dating someone who doesn’t use Facebook and doesn’t disclose her relationship status, maybe she’s “married” with another girl for fun but is still dating. Dating someone, or she might make it clear that she’s in love with someone. How will you find out? Here are some tips:

• See all her photos. Did you see her taking pictures with another guy? Do other people comment that the photos make them look so “beautiful”? If so, she may already have a lover.
• See her wall. Does she often post on a certain guy’s wall, or is there a guy that she hangs out with a lot? If so, the guy could be the one she’s dating.
• Check to see if she often posts mysterious messages alluding to her dating. She can post love songs, use winking emojis, or leave open comments about loving someone. This could be a sign that she’s into someone else or is already dating someone, but she doesn’t make it public.
• If she doesn’t seem to be dating anyone, but is just secretly having feelings for someone else, you should boldly try to flirt with her!

Make sure you have an interesting profile. Whether you know her or not, it’s important that you have a profile that’s both interesting and up-to-date. If she’s used to chatting with you online or commenting on your Facebook posts, there’s a good chance she’ll take a look at your profile. If so, you should create an interesting profile with beautiful photos and some funny comments. Here are a few ways to make sure you have an interesting profile for you to attract the girl you like:

• Set a profile picture that isn’t too flashy and really shows you how you look. Girls will like real guys, not fake guys.
• Post interesting links or clips on your timeline, but don’t do it too often, as it will make you seem very boring.
• Go through other photos of yourself and make sure none of them make you appear immature or frivolous.

Don’t rush into chatting with her as soon as you see her online. If you want me to act calm and get her to like me without being overly aggressive, leave her online for 10-15 minutes before asking “How are you?” This will show that you’re not the type to just sit around and stalk her online on Facebook, this is just because you happened to be online and wanted to ask. Of course you might miss your chance if she exits after two minutes, but if you talk to her after waiting a while, you’ll look more mature.

• If she’s online on her phone (you’ll see the logo in the chat bar), this may not be the right time to chat. Maybe she’s busy and doesn’t even realize she’s logged into the chat feature, it’s because she left Facebook open on her phone.

Start naturally. When texting her, you can start with a very gentle and natural sentence to avoid being misunderstood as following her profile. You can ask “How are you?”, “How are you today?” or ask about simple things like how her soccer match was, or what she thought of a math test in class. You don’t have to make flirty comments in the first place, instead, focus on keeping the conversation going; In fact, if you try to flirt with her early on, it will look very revealing.

• If you’ve never talked to her in person, make sure she really knows who you are. Many people have friends on Facebook and forget that they know that person in real life too.
• Say something like, “How are you these days?” or a question that requires a direct answer like “How was your soccer game the other day?” to keep the conversation going.

Bring up interesting topics. After you’ve successfully started, start talking about topics that interest her to keep the conversation going. It really depends on what you like and what you think she’s interested in. You can talk about a rumor at school (without being too mean), a class you both attended, some news that caused a stir, or your summer plans.

• If she’s interested, she’ll pretty much answer, make funny comments, and ask questions. If she doesn’t respond, you may need to change the subject.

Start building a connection. If you don’t know her well, you can check out her profile to see what she likes, from the band she idolizes to her hobbies, whether it’s running or hiking. . You don’t need to say you’ve seen her profile, instead, bring those topics in naturally. You can also make a connection if you grew up with her from the same place, played the same sport, shared similar political views or other topics.

• Don’t stress if you think the two of you have nothing in common. You can completely build a lasting relationship based on one or two common interests. You don’t have to have exactly the same taste in music, books, or sports to date.