How to Find Yourself

“Release your soul” in a deserted place. Give yourself time and space to get away from expectations, conversations, noise, public opinion, pressure. Take some time each day for a walk and think. Sit down on a park bench and watch things or go out and think. Whatever you do, stay away from things that distract you from your life and where you want to go. In a secluded place, you will feel independent, independent, not alone, afraid or needy.

• Everyone needs some alone time, whether they are introverts or extroverts, single or in love, young or old. This is a time to rejuvenate and talk to yourself, let your soul rest and realize that being “lonely” on purpose is not a bad thing but a part of the liberation of your existence.
• If you’re a creative person, you’ll find moments like these spark creative inspiration. Sometimes collaborating with others is fun, but it’s very difficult to be absolutely creative when there are many people around. Step back and unleash your creativity.

Define passion . When you believe in or see the beauty of something, you should do it regardless of what other people think. If you have found something worthy of your sweat and tears, you have identified the most important goal to pursue in life. Usually, that goal will bring you the end result.

• It’s important for you to realize that it doesn’t matter what it is . Your passion can be child hunger prevention or painting, unlimited scope. You may or may not feel it, but passion is better than nothing. When you find something that pulls you out of bed in the morning, go after it. You will shine with that passion.

Find a mentor. While you alone can find your soul and determine what you want, a mentor can be of great help when you’re having a hard time. Find someone with a strong sense of self, someone you trust. Ask them how they did?

• Show them the process you’re working on. Express that you know this is your own journey but still want to be guided by their strength. Observe them objectively. What makes them human? How did they find it? How to be true to yourself?
• Support is key to the success of any self-improvement strategy. Not many people understand what you’re going through and will dismiss your story as a passing mood. A mentor is someone who listens to your thoughts and helps you overcome the immediate difficulties. Everything has a solution.

Determine your career path. If you’re looking for a job that “fits” you, chances are you’re not happy. You can make an excuse that you’re not reaching your full potential because of a job change. Find yourself by doing the work you love. If it wasn’t about money, what would you rather spend your time doing? How can you make money with this activity/skill?

• Make time for the freedom of association. Think about what you like and don’t like, think about the ideas that suddenly pop into your head when you freely associate. Record those ideas. Go back to the career question and look at the freelance affiliate record just now. What work excites you, moves you, or energizes you? Like Alain de Botton said, it’s an exercise in finding the “sounds of joy” that lurk amid the shrill noises of the work you have to do or should do. ^[1]
• Keep in mind, this job may not be where you want it to be. In that case, you must have a work-life balance to pursue the “real you” outside of the workplace, even if you have to work harder but earn less. Anything is possible, especially when you are pursuing your goal of finding your true self.

Get rid of the thought of needing to be liked by everyone. You have to accept that many people think you are poor no matter what you do. It’s important not to mind what other people think because you can’t please everyone. Although you don’t want to disappoint your loved ones, they should also think about your happiness. If you still live up to the expectations of others, you will never understand the real you. Raymond Hull once said, “He who changes himself to fit in with the people around him soon loses himself.”

• Realize that many people will be jealous, scared or overwhelmed when someone changes their daily routine and becomes a more mature, self-loving person (everyone likes that). This is a threat to existing relationships, it makes the person cold, strict with themselves even if they don’t want to. Empathize with them and give them some space, and they’ll come back. If not, leave them alone. You don’t need those people to be yourself.

Eliminate negativity. It sounds abstract, but it’s not that difficult. Make an effort to minimize judgment of others, things , and yourself. There are two reasons: 1) positivity nurtures and opens up a long-hidden sense of happiness, 2) Reception of new experiences and new people (you noted earlier) will help you move on. Get close to a whole new world that is much better than the one you used to know, where you can find your own sky, castle in the clouds or simply some part of the crazy world This.

• Try doing things that are “weird”, “illogical”, or “uncomfortable everyday”. Stepping out of your comfort zone not only helps you learn new things, but it also forces you to get to know who you really are . What are you capable of, what do you like or dislike, what have you missed so far

Ask myself. Ask difficult and far-reaching questions, remembering to write down the answers. After some quiet alone time, it’s not difficult to identify purposeful thoughts that were once forgotten. If you took notes, each time you respond, you can review your notes and move forward instead of answering the same old questions. Take scientific notes to simplify the review and update process, this is your source of nutrition, thanks to which you can evaluate the progress of life. Here are a few suggestions:

• “If I had all the resources in the world — if I didn’t need to make money — what would I do and why?” Maybe you want to paint, write, farm, or explore the Amazon rainforest. Don’t hold back.
• “What do you want to remember from the past and confidently say that I have no regrets?” Do you regret having never traveled abroad? Do you regret never asking anyone out because there is a risk of rejection? Do you regret not spending more time with your family? Do you regret not sharing your thoughts with your friends? Am I right in/out of line with the level I want to achieve? This is a really difficult question to answer.
• “Choose 3 words to describe the person I want to be.” Adventurous? Accept? Open? Honest? Happy? Optimistic? Unreliable? Don’t be afraid to choose negative words because it shows that you are who you really are, not a combination of many other people that people want to know.
  • Sometimes traits you don’t like come in handy in an emergency. Sometimes they are valuable to the work you are doing.
  • If you have a negative personality, being aware of this helps motivate you to change the negative into a positive. Try replacing bad habits with hobbies. Don’t wash clothes too often? Spend that time camping, maybe you like it. Even practicing pole dancing has positive benefits. If there’s something you’re lazy to do, try finding another one that won’t bore you.
• “Who I am?” This is not a one-time question. You should ask yourself throughout your life. A healthy person will continuously improve themselves throughout life. Frequently asking the question “Who am I” helps abnj update their understanding of who you really are, how you’ve changed. Instead of answering who you want to be, focus on who you are because that’s the most appropriate answer.

Act on and use new knowledge. Such as choosing watercolors, writing short stories or jokes, planning a trip to Mombasa, having dinner with the whole family. Be open and honest. Whatever you decide to be or do, start now .

• You don’t want to come up with excuses like “no time”, “no money”, “family responsibilities”, etc. Instead of such excuses, start planning to tackle life’s roadblocks. living. You will have free time, earn money and rest in the process of finding the courage for such things.
• Sometimes your true self is afraid to face reality because you will have to admit your limits. Start planning the things you really want to do and learn what it takes to make it happen instead of just sitting around making excuses, goals and dreams will just stay in place.

Ready to go to the end of the road. Finding yourself is a journey, not a destination. There will be a lot of trial and error. This is the price of self-satisfaction: more or less at times you encounter obstacles in the way, sometimes tripping. Must know to accept difficult times, know how to get up after falling and move forward.

• It hasn’t been easy, but if you see this as an opportunity to prove how much you want to find yourself, you’ll also find satisfaction and security in what you’re after. When you understand yourself, people will respect you more and treat you kindly. Above all, your light will illuminate you and those around you, making them (and you) feel more self-aware.