How to Become a “Granny”

Independence. The real “old lady plane” does not depend on anyone, both financially and emotionally. Meeting new people and having sex with him or even letting him flirt with you can be quite a lot of fun. However, every time you have fun, you don’t have to meet completely new people. The “old lady plane” is always satisfied with herself and doesn’t need anyone to be close to her. You should have your own friends, hobbies and careers or passions instead of having to depend or rely on men to feel secure.

• The guys you meet often like to meet girls who always spend all their time with their lovers. You should show him that you’re different because you don’t need them. Then men will want to have you more.

Ignore the words of the public. If you decide to become an “old lady plane”, you will inevitably be gossiped by outsiders about what a woman of this age should have. This is not worth your concern. Just live your own life, and be proud to be a real woman. If any men or even other women make fun of you, don’t worry too much and move on with your life. You don’t have enough time for such people.

• In case someone criticizes you for going to a nightclub instead of staying at home, just ignore it. You are living your life, not someone else’s. Everyone has their own definition of happiness.
• Again, as an independent and strong woman, you don’t have to worry about dating failure. “Granny” knows that men will always crave her beauty as well as her sophistication. When you choose the right man, you will never fail in dating. You should remember not to look for the long-term, but to establish a short-term relationship and always be attractive so that the guys are always “craving”. In addition, they also have the opportunity to have more freedom.

Let go of the burden of thought. When you are in your 40s, there is a chance that you will encounter uncertainties in your life. It could be unpleasant things, divorce, or difficulties in dealing with children. Whatever the problem, you should put it behind every time you go out to play. If you’re serious about dating a young man, it’s okay to open up to him while remaining lighthearted and fun during the romantic moment.

• This doesn’t mean you have to lie after a recent divorce or something like that. Only open up about common things, and other issues should be left for later.

Show confidence. If you want to be a “granny plane”, you have to actually own it. Walk into the room as if it were your own, rather than casually walking into a girl’s after-party in the basement. You should show guys that you love yourself, love everything around you, and have fun with what you do. Always smile, make eye contact, stand up straight and be proud. You should be upbeat when talking to the other person, and show people that you enjoy being around them.

• If you want to wear tight skirts and heels in your 40s, then you have to include confidence in your outfit. When you show the right attitude, you will attract the eyes of all the guys around.

Take pride in your own life experience. Don’t think that your years of dating, marriage, or outside world experience are all zeros. This is different from letting go of the burden of thought; you need to recognize yourself as a seasoned woman and take pride in all that people past and present have taught you. If you’ve worked three jobs, be proud of it. Live in five different provinces? That’s even better. You should cherish everything in life, so it is easier to make a good impression on the opposite person.

• When you meet someone new, you should tell him about the best things in life. He’ll think you’re even more attractive because of it.

Be strong and show your strengths. Young boys and girls, colleagues and people you work with will be drawn to or inspired by a woman who is determined, has life experience and knows how to get what she wants. Indeed, then you are a seasoned mentor whom young people always adore and admire; you will have the opportunity to help and be recognized as a key player when imparting experience to them. If you are not ready to have fun, you can recall your achievements in life and how to achieve them. It’s time to stand at the top and become the strong woman hidden inside of you; Life is not waiting, so you have to know how to grab good opportunities.

• Think about what led you to your current career or habit. Do you impress your boss or others with your knowledge or demonstrate a steadfast will? Are you one of the best in your industry and why do your peers respect you?
• Be mindful of the jobs you’re good at. Are you a great mom who can clean the messy house? Or are you a decisive person that makes all members of the company hesitant to bow to you?

Stop feeling guilty or responsible for others. With her age and experience, many overreacted women realize that each has her own problems and she doesn’t have to. You need to let relatives and friends who are too dependent on you to go their own way. Separate yourself gently or hard, depending on the person, and let them make their own decisions instead of you having to make your own.

• Learn to stay away from people who interfere with your life. You don’t need anyone to expend all your energy, take advantage or drag you down the abyss. No “old lady plane” could stand the people who stood in their way.
• Cold and aloof is often seen as cruel. However, this is an art form, and applying such behavior to some people is essential to realizing the message that they are affecting your life. People who are lazy, only know how to take advantage and people who love themselves too much should watch out.
• Feeling a bit awkward being the driver and getting what you want? You should realize that being in control and getting what you want is often a male trait; An “old woman” is someone who knows how to apply these two points to their own advantage, holding power and respect for themselves.

Find the right place. If you’re looking for young men, usually 25 or younger, you can’t go to the typical hangout places like restaurants or spas. You need to identify places to hang out in the area, sports bars on ball game days, or hang out at bars or clubs that are mostly youth-focused. This doesn’t mean you have to go to a mediocre bar that serves beer for only 50,000 VND, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to go to places that guys like and are affordable.

• If you are interested in getting to know young men in their twenties, you can go to the student bar. However, you have to make sure your guy is old enough to drink.

Find the right person. “Grandma” doesn’t date men her age (or older). You have arrived and found the object to hunt. The feature of the “old lady” is dating younger men who are more experienced and immature in their thinking, enthusiastic and friendly to women. Of course you need to avoid dating guys under the age of 20 because of the potential for sex crimes with a minor, plus you have to consider that you are the age of this person’s mother.

• You prefer younger men, but still maintain the age limit when you can be their lover but not their mother, you don’t want to have to babysit for guys who are still in progress. goal search for your life.
• Looking for young men who are confident, attractive and well dressed. Eye contact; If two eyes meet and hold for a long time, then you are choosing the right person.
• Avoid contact with young people who lack confidence. It’s not your duty to teach them how to be adults; Your experience and attractiveness can be the last straw for their fragile ego.
• Choose who you want to be friends with and date. Men who are friends are long-term relationships (with or without sex); and people to date are often short-term relationships, even one-night stands, and easily end.

Teach him something about life. The benefit of the “old lady plane” is that you have full experience and know what to do. Therefore, when you meet the right person, you should teach him a few things but not the type of mother teaching children or teachers teaching students. Not necessarily too serious. Order your favorite drink for him and give him some tips for getting a promotion. You should show that person that you are someone he wants to be with and a woman of deep understanding.

• You can do this as long as you don’t touch his masculinity. Just teach him a few things but don’t make him feel like he’s lacking in talent.

Teach him a few things about sex. This is obvious needless to say. Once in bed, you have no obligation to obey him. He’s 22 years old and may have been in a boring relationship with his ex-girlfriend during his school days until he met his friend and witnessed the amazing moves. Do not wait for him to bring joy; Instead, you should tell him what to do. He’ll be interested when you take the initiative, and you’ll both benefit from taking the time to educate him.

• Young men are usually comfortable in bed and appreciate the experience of older women. What’s more, guys between the ages of 20 and 25 are generally more in demand than men your age. So you can slowly enjoy your own fun.

No need to worry about the age gap. If you want to have fun with a new guy, put aside the idea that he’s your child’s age. That is not the problem. The main thing is that you’re having a good time and want to keep it going… instead of worrying that he’s not even old enough to rent a car.

• Should not mention this sensitive issue, if so, you just need to laugh it off. You can freely teach him without being shy about the age gap.