How to Be Independent

Accept yourself. You cannot build a strong, independent self if you cannot live with yourself. Accept who you are, your personality, your thoughts, your voice, your interests, and your life. Don’t say things against yourself. Anyone can be strong enough. Everyone has to endure something to prove themselves strong. Leave your mistakes behind and learn from them. Make an effort to better yourself and most importantly, love yourself.

• This is an important part of being independent because accepting yourself for who you are will keep you away from trying to imitate others.

Believe in yourself. If you don’t believe in yourself, who can? We are all different and all have something unique to show. No one can say the words from your mouth and not everyone will agree with what you say so it’s important to stand your ground because in the end you are all you have and if you believe Think for yourself, that’s decisive. Believing in yourself will make you believe in your own decisions — even when they completely go against other people’s expectations — or even society’s.

• If you do not have faith in yourself, you will always doubt yourself and ask for help from others when you have to make decisions. Stay away from this.

Accept the world. Independents are not frivolous, but neither do they believe that humanity as a whole is evil. Independent people are those who see the world with its good and bad sides, and soberly choose to live strongly for themselves and others. You are not independent because you don’t trust anyone. You are not independent because you are proud of yourself. Follow this guide: Learn to accept the world, and decide to be strong.

• Accepting the world in all its complexity will also help you realize that there are countless ways to live in the world out there — you’re not bound to any of them.

Be emotionally independent. It is likely that you rely on people for emotional support. Be it a parent, boyfriend, girlfriend, or best friend. While it is possible to continue to rely on these people for the rest of your life, the best thing is to realize that all the people you are relying on sooner or later will be gone. Some people move out, some stop talking to you, and all of them will eventually cease to exist in this world. The only person who is always with you is yourself. If you rely on yourself, you will never be disappointed.

• It’s okay to stick with a few important people in your life, but you can’t let them determine your level of happiness. This is up to you.

Be motivated . Others have not and never will be as motivated for your success as you are. Motivation and success come from habits. You must get rid of the bad habit of procrastination, and replace it with the habit of good planning. The most successful people in the world are not always the brightest, the most beautiful, but no matter what talents or gifts they are endowed with, they always reinforce their worth with achievements. through small or lofty tasks. Here’s how to learn everything from school, gain confidence in dating and all the other things in life.

• If you want to achieve your career goals, this is for your own satisfaction, not your family’s. The same is true if you want a great score.
• Don’t rush to lose weight, publish a book, or build a house just to impress people. Do it because you want to be successful. Do it for yourself.

Be your own hero. A role model can inspire and show you how to live your life. It’s not that bad to find someone you admire deeply who shares the same values. However, in the end, it’s important to model yourself as being able to do and say whatever you want. Be yourself, and be yourself to the fullest. If you do not admire yourself, you cannot become independent.

• Avoid idolizing any friends or acquaintances in your social circles. This will only make it easier for you to forget to do your own things.

Accept that life is not fair. Our parents love us so much that they do everything they can to raise us in a fair environment. The real world doesn’t work according to that principle and this is the problem of today’s world. The rules of the world often protect the majority (which you may not be) or those with money and power. You will be treated badly for a host of injustices: the color of your skin, your intelligence, your height, your weight, how much money you have, your opinions, your gender, and everything that makes you who you are. . You have to be happy despite all those injustices.

• Don’t let the injustice of the world stop you from doing what you want. Want to become a male nanny? A female soldier? The first person in the family to graduate from college? Do it instead of telling yourself it’s not possible in today’s world.

Stop caring what other people think. This is the most important thing to become independent. If you have to rely on other people to hear you say whether your music is good or not, your clothes are cute, you will not be happy. As long as you like it – nothing else matters. Stop worrying about other people’s judgments about your life, whether it’s what they think about your clothes, your career choices, or other important choices. They are all your decisions, no one else’s.

• If you always have recurring thoughts like “But what would people think if…” in your head, you will always hesitate to do what you want.

Don’t just “think” you are the best; Prove it to yourself. Your opinion is the most important factor in motivation, but you know when you are working to achieve. It’s a lot easier if you start taking on your responsibilities and know that with strong faith in yourself you can handle what’s coming because you’ve been through it, not trying to achieve your goals. because you are impatient and full of heart. Being impatient and messy makes you not get much results but also makes you torment yourself.

Search for information yourself. Watch and read news and make sure you get information from multiple sources. Follow up often and aim to have full two-way coverage of every story before jumping to an opinion. You can also talk to people from different backgrounds to get more information on a related topic, but never let others tell you what to think. Make it a goal to read as much as possible, whether you’re reading literature or The New York Times. Being well informed will help you avoid stalking and form a more independent way of thinking.

• You don’t want to be a lemming and believe something just because your 50 best friends on Facebook tell you so.