How to Be Cutthroat and Scary When Needed

Don’t be afraid to say no. Sharp and fierce people do not give up or let others dominate them. You must be willing to assert yourself and say no to those who push the blame on you, ask for nonsense, or put more pressure on you than you can bear. ^[4] People who are truly domineering will make others do what they want rather than yielding to others. ^[5]

• If it’s unreasonable or impossible to do, then refuse. Remember this is your new self.
• The point here is that you have to get the respect you deserve. People will not value those who easily give in to what they want.

Don’t be satisfied when you are given less than you put in. If you want to be treated right, remember that you deserve what you want and you don’t have to spend your life contented with mediocrity. You want to advance your career or want some nasty guy at school to stay away from you. Whatever it is, write it down and understand that you deserve the best. Don’t let others say otherwise. ^[6]

• You have to really know what you want. Take some time to think about what you want out of life – and what you would like to achieve if you were sharper.

Focus on your own business. People with strong personalities have their own ideals of how to live and do not give in to or follow other people’s notions of success. This doesn’t mean you can burn down your house if you like, but it does mean that you should have faith and not care too much about what other people think. If you want to go to a concert by a band that not many people like, go alone. If you go to class without knowing anyone and don’t want to communicate with anyone, sit down and do your own thing.

• Stop trying so desperately to fit in and stop stalking people you don’t really care about just to look cool.

The world is full of beautiful things for you. Stop thinking that the world is giving you nothing or holding you back. Accept it and conquer it. When stepping into a party, do not rush to shrink back, afraid that you will do wrong or do not know anyone; instead, think about the great time to come because this party night is completely under your control.

• Attitude makes skill. If you think about the millions of good things that could happen to you and act excitedly to get what you want, you will get it. It’s better than sitting in the corner crying “My life is not good at all”.

Learn to recognize yourself. Don’t wait for others to tell you how wonderful you are, or how beautiful you are, or how valuable you are. Although it’s nice to be praised and praised, it’s not worth it if you always think of yourself as a worthless person who doesn’t do anything good. Instead, take a step back to see how awesome you are and show everyone that you’re comfortable with who you are, you don’t care what they think of you – that’s just manners. ^[7]

• This doesn’t mean you should think of yourself as perfect. It means, you have to recognize your own worth, despite your flaws.

A clear sense of what you want. Another way to make people afraid of you and even a little ferocious is to know what you’re after. It could be walking through the lobby without having to talk to the people who always want to take you down; It is also possible to graduate from college in 3 years. Whatever it is, you need to have a solid vision of the future you want, so solid that anyone who knows you will think, “Oh, it’s true that no one can stop her/ he”.

• Look straight ahead instead of lowering your head to the floor. Show everyone that you are always looking to the future.

Have a strong opinion. The strong do not need to consult others about what they do or constantly question their beliefs. Although you can question yourself to find the right answer, avoid becoming an insecure person, always relying on others for answers. Not only should you be able to clearly state your thoughts on an issue or situation, you must also have solid evidence for it.

• While everyone has a right to an opinion, you should not indiscriminately express opinions that are baseless, hurtful, or offensive; this will make people disrespect you. Have a firm belief, but make sure it’s built on facts.

Know control. The heathen knows how to control his emotions, body, and words. Speak in a calm, deliberate voice, and don’t sound like you’re about to burst into flames when you’re in a tough situation. If you find yourself getting impatient and starting to raise your voice, walk away and say you need a breather. ^[8] If you want to be feared by people, you have to make them think, “Oh, he’s got the job done if he says that…”.

• If you want people to see and value your arguments, you must control your words and emotions.

Show confidence. You can’t even scare a potted plant if you’re not confident. You should act and show love for yourself, knowing where you’re going and what you’re doing. Have a reasonable conversation, make eye contact, have good posture and don’t fidget or look around too much, you will look uncertain about yourself. You don’t have to be arrogant and perfect, but if you reveal too many weaknesses, no one will take you seriously.

• Turn fake into real. ^[9] If you control your voice and body language, you can feel real confidence. ^[10]

Stand up for. Whatever happens, don’t back down. Even if someone says something that disparages your opinion, defend it and convey exactly what you think. Don’t say “Yeah, I think you’re right. I suck” or something like that. Please continue. Even if you lose, it shows that you are someone who will never back down and will defend what you believe in. Just make sure you don’t give the impression that you’re too stubborn to keep everyone away. ^[11]

Be discreet. You can do this by controlling facial expressions and words. Be polite but at the same time don’t reveal too much about yourself. You can keep the conversation short and not get too personal. This creates an atmosphere of mystery and ambiguity for the enemy when you interact with them.

• Also don’t appear scared or overwhelmed – this will ruin the expected effect.

Don’t react too positively. This includes avoiding behaviors like laughing, joking, and smiling – even if that’s your usual attitude. If it’s too difficult, being emotionless – in which case you feel the need to be intimidating – will also work. However, expressing negative emotions such as outbursts of anger or annoyance is fine – as long as they scare off the person in need.

Use appropriate tone of voice when speaking. Make sure your voice is confident, firm, and sure. Don’t speak so quietly that no one can hear you. Speak louder than usual so everyone can hear. It will also silence everyone. Don’t say things that cause controversy or get yourself in trouble, but make sure you speak your mind more firmly than usual. ^[12]

• You can record your speech at home to see how your everyday speech is.

Honestly express opinions. If someone makes the wrong decision or doesn’t look right, be frank and honest with them – there’s no need to be too polite because you’re being mean. You can achieve better results if you are sarcastic when commenting.

• This is a great way to show you don’t care what other people think, which is a scary trait.

Walk into the room like it’s your place. People with charisma know what they want and walk into the room like they own it. They gave off an aura like “Get out of the way!”. This certainly scares people off and makes them think, “This guy knows what he’s doing”. If you want to play the bad guy, don’t walk away like this is who I am. Act decisively, asserting dominance as soon as possible. ^[13]

• Don’t look around anxiously for someone to talk to. If you show yourself that you know where you are, you’ll instantly be awe-inspiring.

Don’t laugh too much . No matter how mean and tough a person is, there’s always a soft side, but you won’t impress anyone if you giggle every two seconds. Humor helps reduce stress and connects people, but if you’re around people you want to dominate, the less jokes the better. Don’t let them think you’re easy, fun, or easygoing, or you’ll be taken advantage of.

• Of course, you can still hang out with the people you love and laugh with them to the fullest!

Let the results speak for themselves. You don’t have to brag to scare people. If you keep talking about how good you are at sports/study/founding a company, outsiders will respect you less than if they see it for themselves. If you’re really good, people will see it quickly; And if you keep talking to them, no one will care.

• Don’t waste time bragging and showing people how awesome you are to scare them off. This will make you look like you’re desperate for recognition, in stark contrast to your heady demeanor.

Don’t help. Don’t flatter someone if you don’t want to, beg for recognition or act like a servant. This behavior will make others think that you need external approval, but not know what you really want. That’s right, if you keep flirting with teachers, celebrities or superiors, the people around you will no longer respect you because you don’t respect yourself.

Notice the appearance. If you want everyone to look up in awe, you have to look decent. You don’t have to look gorgeous or like you’re on a fashion show, just dress neat, clean, clothes that don’t wrinkle, shower regularly, generally everything that shows you’re a caring person. self. This shows that you respect yourself on a rudimentary level and others should follow suit.

• Don’t let others see you looking in the mirror, fixing your clothes, or putting on makeup in public. This will make you look insecure about yourself.