How to Be Attractive (for Men)

Regularly trim your hair. Even if you are trying to grow long hair, you need to regularly trim your hair to get rid of split ends. You can visit a hairstylist, or cut your own hair. Whichever method you choose, consider the following guide:

• If you want to keep your hair short, trim your hair every 2 to 3 weeks. Make sure you or your barber shave off any ingrown hairs on the back of your neck.
• If you are growing long hair, trim the ends every 4 to 6 weeks. Remember to shave off the hair growing at the back of your neck even if it is covered by your hair.

Wash your hair regularly. Most men usually wash their hair every day, but you can also wash your hair every other day if your hair is of the dry type.

• Find the right shampoo and conditioner for your hair type – dry hair, oily hair, etc.
• Look for separate shampoos and conditioners – products that do both shampoo and conditioner in the same product won’t work.
• Take the advice of your barber – they are experts in this area! Hair care products sold at barbershops will usually be more expensive than regular products, but they will certainly be of better quality.

Use hair care products (optional). You don’t need to use a certain product to style your hair, although many people do. They will help add shine and strength to your hair as well as make it easier to hold your hair and control your hairstyle. The following are common products commonly used to style men’s hair:

• Serum or cream. These types of products will help you deal with unruly or frizzy hair without stiffening or immobilizing your hair.
• Mousse. Use a mousse to moderate your hair while adding volume and shine to your hair. For best results, apply product while hair is wet and let dry.
• Pomade (wet wax), wax (dry wax) or clay (hard wax). Use these products when you want to style hair that is difficult to hold, such as pompadour or curly hair (if your hair is straight). Keep in mind that you’ll likely have to wash your hair several times to get the product out of your hair completely, so don’t use too much. A pea-sized amount will also be plenty if your hair is short, medium, or thin. Use pomade or wax if you want your hair to look shiny and wet; Use clay if you want to create a matte and natural look for your hair.
• Gel. Unlike pomade, alcohol-based gels dry out the hair and hold it in place. To keep your hair super strong, apply gel to your hair while it’s still wet.
• Glue for hair hold. Have you ever wondered why so many people are able to keep their mane upright? They may have used glue to keep the hair super strong. Be careful when using this product and be sure to wash your hair thoroughly to completely remove the product from your hair.
• Consult a barber! They will know which hairstyle doesn’t suit you.

Find the right hairstyle. Consult your friends in choosing a hairstyle. And the next time you go for a haircut, consult your barber about what styles are right for you; Also, ask if you should brush or blow-dry your hair. You’ll probably need to experiment with different hairstyles before you find the one that best suits your face and style, but eventually you’ll be sure to find one that works for you. Check out the following options:

• Parting for the hair. You can part your hair in the middle, part it to the side, or not part it at all. Try out different styles to determine which hairstyle you like.
• Comb your hair in one direction, instead of parting it, you can comb it in one direction. If your hair is short, brush it in a forward direction; If your hair is long, you can brush it back or keep it up. Again, try different styles.
• If your hair is long, you can tie it up in a ponytail, style it so that it covers the front of your face, or comb it back and tie it at the top of your head.

Coping with baldness (optional). If you are bald, it is best to shave your hair so that other people cannot clearly see the difference. Remember to wash your hair immediately after exercising, as many people assume that if you don’t follow this method, you will speed up the balding rate, and remember to massage your scalp gently every time you wash your hair.

Always remember to dress well. That’s right, dress well every day! Even if you’re just choosing an outfit for a casual day, you shouldn’t “give up” on any outfit you see. Choose clothes that are appropriate for the job you plan to do.

Go shopping with friends. When shopping for clothes, it can be difficult to determine what style is right for you – because you can’t see your entire body in the mirror. Also, outfits that look pretty good when worn by a celebrity or in pictures of male models probably won’t suit you! So go shopping with a friend who knows how to dress and is fashion-savvy.

Wear flattering clothing. Cheap but flattering clothes are better than expensive clothes that don’t fit you!

• Try on every item before you buy – and ask your friend to see you from all angles! Don’t rely on item sizes – this is a general guide only.
• In general, the crotch (crotch) of the pants (trousers) you wear should touch your shoes, the long-sleeve shirt should cover your wrists, and the hem should touch your hips. Even the panties have to fit!
• Be prepared to try on many products before you buy. If the store doesn’t sell the right product for you, go to another store – don’t buy an item that can only make you look OK.
• Don’t buy clothes online – you can’t try them on, so they probably won’t fit you. Plus, if you don’t try them on, you won’t know if they’ll suit you (even if they look good on the model guy in the photo!).
• Don’t try to hide your body. Whether you’re embarrassed about your size or being too skinny, using loose clothing to try to hide your flaws will only make you look worse. You don’t have to wear clothes that fit perfectly, but you also shouldn’t wear clothes that are baggy or have too much space.
• If your size doesn’t fit the clothes sold in fashion stores, find an affordable tailor. Maybe you have small hips but you have pretty long legs, and you just can’t find jeans that match both. Look for clothes that are slightly larger than your size, then find a tailor to fix the garment to fit your measurements. Most dry cleaners also accept clothing repairs at an affordable price.
• Get rid of old clothes. Maybe you loved that old t-shirt from your high school days, but maybe it just doesn’t fit you anymore. Your clothes and body size will change over time. Even if you still fit into that outfit, clothes that are two or three years old can start to fray or become out of fashion.

Know how to emphasize the most prominent features of the body. Here are some basic dress rules: light colors will highlight and dark colors will blur your highlights. For example, if you like your shoulders but don’t like your legs, you could wear dark jeans and a light t-shirt.

Determine the color that is right for you. The right color will accentuate your skin, and the wrong color will make your skin look pale and pale. Again, consult your friends! Here are some basic testing guidelines you can follow:

• Determine whether you are suitable for white or grayscale. Hold a white shirt in front of you, then a gray white shirt. If you are like everyone else, you will find that one shirt makes you look better than the other. Once you’ve identified the right color, use it.
• Determine whether you are suitable for black or brown. These two colors can be harder to discern than white, but some people find that black makes them look better than brown, and vice versa. Once you’ve decided on the right color, don’t mix the two – for example, don’t wear brown shoes, brown belt, black trousers. Wear black shoes, black pants, and a black belt, or go for the whole brown outfit.
• Try to figure out if you prefer “warm” or “cold” colors. Cool colors are usually blues, purples, dark greens, and reds blues, while warm colors are usually yellows, oranges, browns, and yellows reds. One way to make it easier to identify is to find something red-blue, and something red-yellow, and hold them up in front of you. Which color suits your skin better? (If you need help identifying warm and cool tones, the palettes on online websites can help.)

Look for clothes that you can use for a long time. These types of outfits shouldn’t go out of style quickly, and they need to be made from quality materials that can last for many years. Choose from a selection of single-color ppo shirts, single-color or plaid button-down shirts, dark jeans, white or black t-shirts (the ones that don’t have text or graphics on them), and a single-color blazer. , dark trousers, dark fitted jacket, western shoes, and white sneakers. These are clothes that you can easily combine them together to form a neat outfit.

Wash clothes often. Some types of clothing can be used many times before becoming dirty (such as jeans and jackets), but shirts, panties, and socks need to be washed immediately after wearing. Plan to do your laundry regularly so you don’t end up running out of clean clothes to wear.

• When washing shirts and trousers, dry them until they are slightly damp, then hang them on hangers (or spread the pants on a flat surface) until they are completely dry. This method will help minimize wrinkles in your pants.
• It is best to iron your clothes before they are completely dry. Even jeans should be ironed.
• Store clothes (except underwear) by hanging or folding them carefully so they don’t wrinkle.

Have a good posture. While it may sound unrelated, standing up straight makes you look confident and in control, and this makes people feel that you’re quite attractive. The right posture will also make you look taller. Keep your shoulders perpendicular to your arms, spine straight, and try to keep your hips between your feet. Walk with confidence and don’t drag your feet. Also, don’t look down or put your hands in your pockets as this will make you look shy or nervous.

Smile. Giving others a genuine smile is one of the easiest things you can do to make yourself more attractive. Practice smiling regularly, and train your mind to always think about the triggers that make you smile so easily.

• Develop a sense of humour. Find joy and laughter in every absurd aspect of your life, and don’t hesitate to present these absurdities to others. Try to keep your jokes off topic of bodily function, sexual activity, or belittling a certain group of people.

Eye contact. When you’re talking to someone (especially with someone you like), look that person in the eye to show that you care and pay attention to them.

• Use eye contact to flirt. Make eye contact with the person sitting next to you or across from you until she catches your eye. Continue to look them in the eye for a few seconds, then smile and look away.

Be a gentleman. You don’t have to be ostentatious when it comes to showing your care and respect to others. Say “please”, “thank you”, and “sorry” and show courtesy by holding the door for the person behind you.

• Respect others. Don’t contradict other people’s beliefs, and don’t be rude to them. If someone starts to confront you, stay calm and walk away – this shows that you won’t lower yourself to that person’s level.
• Do not swear or make rude comments in public. You can be a little comfortable around friends or family, but you need to avoid expressing this attitude when you’re around people you don’t know well.

Know how to talk. Being a good conversationalist will help other people feel more comfortable and relaxed talking to you. Learn how to be aware of what other people are doing and let them lead you to other topics of conversation. Ask open-ended questions (for example, instead of asking “Do you have plans for this weekend?” that will only require the other person to answer yes or no, instead, ask “What are you going to do this weekend?”), and stay away from often controversial topics such as politics and religion.

• To improve your conversation skills, find ways to start a conversation with a stranger while you are waiting for a service in a public place, such as when you are waiting for a bus or when you are queuing up. at the fruit store. If you can give the other person a sincere smile and a few words to start a conversation, you’re doing pretty well.

Speak clearly and carefully. When you’re conversing with others, try not to stammer or speak too quickly. Also, avoid talking in a “gypsy” manner or using too much slang; Many women consider this to be quite unattractive. Speak in complete sentences, and avoid speaking until you’ve really thought through what you’re going to say – it will help you avoid many embarrassing situations.

Healthy eating. Following a healthy diet can help you avoid bad breath and body odor, as well as help you stay healthy and in shape. Try incorporating a few of these guidelines into your daily diet:

• Do not eat junk food that contains a lot of sugar, it will form problems for your skin and will make you look older. From time to time, you can eat these foods, but you shouldn’t use them every day. Try to only have soda, beer, candy, packaged chips, and other junk food on a single “snack” day of the week.
• Eat lots of vegetables. You’ve probably heard this phrase quite a few times, but it’s really important to eat plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables in a healthy diet. Consider eating plenty of fresh fruit (such as apples, oranges, and pears) with your snack, and try to include at least one green vegetable with lunch and dinner.
• Learn cooking. Start with the simple things – boil eggs, make sandwiches and salads, make burgers and steaks, reheat frozen vegetables, cook rice and boil pasta. This method will save you money, improve your health and impress others!

Do exercise. Staying physically active not only makes your body more attractive, but it also improves your mood and strengthens your resistance. Make a plan of exercise that fits your schedule and remember to do it. You can get started with the following suggestions:

• Do basic warm-ups, sit-ups, push-ups, and other exercises every other day. Keep the same number of repetitions of each movement. Then, as your muscles grow, you can increase the number of reps of each exercise and you will feel the results.
• Lift the weight. Try to do as much as you can, but don’t overdo it, and take a few days off so your muscles can heal and improve. Daily exercise can be bad for you! However, you do not need to worry that your muscles will become excessively large. The bodybuilders you often see in magazines have such large bodies because lifting weights is their only source of income. This will not happen to you.
  • The main weight lifting exercises include, Bench Press, Squat, Overhead Press, Deadlift. The crossbar and double bar are great accessories for these exercises. If you want to work your chest more, consider doing the Incline Press. If you want to do heavier exercises, you can do Power Clean, Push-press. If this exercise isn’t enough for you, try lifting the bar off your head in the thigh position, doing the overhead lift, the shoulder lift in the front thigh position, or the exercises. lift other weights. If you already have a membership at the gym that’s great, focus on using the bar, and use a machine such as a lat pull down to add on. your exercises.
• Walk, jog, bike, or run briskly for 30 minutes or 1-2 km (if you bike, jog, jog, or walk to school or work, you’re also doing healthy exercise through just walking, jogging, brisk running, or biking; these will work your abs, legs, and back). It will help your body become more flexible helping you quickly achieve your goals.
• Do exercise in the morning. This method will help your skin be active and become more beautiful. Make sure you take a shower after exercising. Sometimes, exercise makes you sweat. And sweat certainly won’t smell good. Take a shower after you sweat to clean your body and prevent body odor.