How to Be an Extrovert

Observe. Changing your personality is hard work. But you can completely mold your brain, and so this is not impossible. Start by observing the extroverts around you. Be aware of different types of people and how they thrive in different environments. Some people stand out when working in small groups while others perform better in large groups. Some people can even become timid in certain situations!

• Also, take the time to note down the traits you think make them extroverts. Remember this: some extroverts are also shy by nature. But shy people don’t mean they can’t get energy from others. Are you trying to be confident? Approachable? In addition to extroversion, what other traits do these people have that you would like to learn from?

Perform. This is another way of saying “pretend”. But you’re not really pretending – you’re just performing. After you’ve spent time observing other extroverts, imitate them. When you’re in a social situation, you can disguise yourself as an extrovert. Robert de Niro, Barbara Walters, David Letterman – are all introverts. ^[4] They just go on stage and perform. Then they went home.

Start with small steps. Start with small tasks and intervals. Spend 15 minutes a day among people. Get out of your comfort zone; Do something small that makes you feel a little uncomfortable. Come knock on your neighbor’s door and introduce yourself. After that first step, the second step will become easier. And the third step will become as easy as candy.

• Once you’re comfortable with being an extrovert for that small amount of time, increase the amount of time. Next week, you can spend an hour meeting people around where you live. When you are sitting at home waiting for the bus, ask the person waiting for the bus next to you about the bus time and include a few comments about the situation. Make the cashier at the grocery store smile. Just like that, accumulate small to large.

Meet other people. The obvious fact is that you can’t be an extrovert on your own. It’s also pretty much part of the definition of an extrovert. So let’s meet others! Whether you’re joining the story of people standing around a water cooler or accepting a coworker’s baby shower, don’t hesitate. You won’t be able to grow and get better if you don’t try.

• Usually, people will stop inviting you to an event if you make excuses to avoid it. Remember to attend events when invited by others. The more people you meet, the more comfortable you will be around other people and the easier it will be to become an extrovert.

Determine your own worth. Some of us often see ourselves as bland or silly. We think of extroverts as social and they don’t want to spend time with lousy people like us. This is not true! Completely incorrect. Just because you’re an introvert doesn’t mean you lack skills or values in society. Any group of people has a suitable place for each person.

• Consider the following special example: you sit at home every day of the week in front of the computer playing games and eating fast food. Is your intelligence still there? Of course. Do you still have the skills? Sure. Does the person with a well-spoken business idea need to remember someone else to design a website for him/her? Have. How can you help others?

Take risks. Extroverts tend to be more impulsive than introverts. ^[5] To mimic their impulses (until they become natural), think creatively. If you’re walking next to a stream, jump in (if you know how to swim). Sing loudly while going to the supermarket. Anything that you previously thought was crazy is worth rethinking.

Find the right group of people. Sometimes the problem is not with ourselves – but with the people around us. In the best possible way, of course. Part of the problem may be because you just can’t get along with everyone. Perhaps an older (or younger) group of people, of a different audience, etc., might be a better fit for you. They can help you reveal your talkative, outspoken, and engaging nature. Think about it.

• Test this theory by joining a club. Any small class where you find like-minded people can help you realize that it’s not the people around you that are the cause of your closure – it’s just the people around you. by a particular group of people. Some people are our deterrents and many others won’t – find someone who can help you come out of your shell.

Use your strengths. Maybe you’re a good listener, not a talker. Perhaps you read more books than you party. Hot news for you! Strengths in your introverted personality can turn into strengths in your extroverts. The next time someone makes it clear that they’ve had a bad day, walk up to them and ask them how. Your listening skills will master the situation. Start a conversation about the book you’re reading – remember that extroverts read books too!

• If you are truly an introvert, you may be thinking, remembering, observing, and perceiving many things. In this case, you are already equipped: you have the ability to pay attention to details that would otherwise be hard to notice. Please use them. Notice small details and make comments. The other person may be surprised for a few seconds but then smile when they know that someone has finally realized something about them. Anyone would love this feeling.

Talk. When you’re in a social situation (which is also half the battle you’re dealing with), talk to people. About anything. Anything you want. You will definitely have your own opinion! And if you’re comfortable with your own feelings, ask questions of those around you. People often like to be noticed by others. Asking questions of others is the easiest way.

• If this is your problem, you can start talking when you’re alone. Talk more when around relatives and close friends. Sometimes it can be difficult to get used to your own voice. Practice doesn’t make you perfect, but it certainly helps form habits. The more you get used to talking, the better you’ll do in every situation.

Affirm yourself. The next step after talking is to assert yourself. When the opportunity presents itself, seize it. Unless you support mass genocide or have a big purple monster stalking you every Tuesday, you won’t be able to cause chaos or get rejected. So, is it important to talk about the movie you want to see? Are not. How about saying what you think about your boss’s presentation? Nor does it matter. Please just say it.

• If you want, let the other person set the tone for the conversation. One of the things most people are good at is complaining, and they’re really good at it when they’re in a group of people. Find a time when you and a few friends/acquaintances were discussing a trivial matter and expressing your point of view. If they don’t like it, ignore them. The conversation will still go on.

Interrupt others. Introverts are often too kind. Extroverts will find a way to capture the conversation and master it. You can be that person too! You don’t have to wait too long to start chatting – because the moment you’ve been waiting for may not come. You won’t be rude if you start at the right time. Extroverts do this all the time.

• The only problem that you need to pay attention to is determining the right time to do it. If you think about it, you will recognize the right opportunity. It’s not a good idea to interrupt when your friend is talking about a close friend who is sick. Interrupting on a street podium on the issue of vegetarianism may be appropriate. If it’s an active conversation or argument, don’t hesitate. If it is someone who is unloading or grieving, wait for your turn.

Attract attention. Don’t pay attention to the little things – now is the time to be bolder: to attract other people’s attention to yourself. This may include being noisy, or you may not need it. However, you may need to initiate action. You can start a game. Talk about what you want to do on a Friday night. Gather everyone.

• Get others to act. Raise a topic that everyone can discuss. Throw popcorn on the table. Hiding awkwardly behind a small pillar. Send funny videos to all your friends. Get others to act and talk.

Make others laugh. While not all extroverts are comedians and not all comedians are extroverts, if you want to gain social recognition, the best you can do is make Make those around you laugh out loud. Getting attention is a pretty great starting point, but you can go even further. Even if you have to make fun of yourself!

• Even something as simple as making funny sounds or moving in slow motion can bring laughter to others. A certain habit can also make other people laugh. They’ll enjoy it, and hopefully they’ll feel more comfortable with you, too. Your sociability will only start to skyrocket from the moment everyone joins you!