How to Be a Real Man

Stay clean, even if you’re living in the woods. Real men know that bathing is necessary, even animals do, but should not consider “grooming” as part of modern social trends. Grooming has become a business trend and many organizations and companies constantly convince you of using dozens of unnecessary products. This kind of business for “grooming” and “men’s waxing” was conceived to make money, not because it was noble, or healthy and ethical.

• You don’t have to shave every day, especially if you’re looking to grow a beard. Many people can’t grow a beard so it’s probably best for them to shave. Some other people are quite the opposite, growing a beard is their instinct. Men tend to be afraid of what women think about their beards, but the truth is that they are not slaves to women. No woman can make you shave when you don’t want to. Be yourself, as a natural being, be in control of yourself.
  • Do not shave chest or body hair in general. You don’t have to live up to the meaningless and short-sighted image of “a smooth, chiseled (or plastic) man” created by modern fashion, advertising and movies just to make money. You should be proud of what makes you a real man, and the natural physical features that nature has bestowed on you to affirm your own masculinity.
• Shower when needed. Men will shower when their bodies are dirty or smelly – they don’t need to shower every day like women. A man will choose to “stay dirty” for good reason (he’s building a car, or getting ready to exercise).
• Regularly cut hair and nails. Most men prefer serious hairstyles, although many prefer to grow their hair a little longer or style it.

Do exercise. Being a real man doesn’t mean you need to have a lot of muscles. But it’s about taking care of your body (for many people this means lifting weights). Stay accountable for being a strong man by staying fit: do cardio, do yoga or pilates (they’re not just for women), work out, or play Sports, combined with a healthy diet. At least, you should walk for about 30 minutes a day to burn fat and build muscle.

Wear clothes that fit. You don’t have to choose clothes designed by famous stylists or are too expensive. However, they should fit you well. Not all men are muscular and toned, and as such, they will not be suitable for baggy clothes. Although tights are quite popular these days, you should try to stay away from women’s clothing if possible. Every man will usually need:

• Matching pair of jeans. Your wardrobe should be stocked with a pair of casual jeans, a pair for work, and a pair for formal use. Based on your basic needs.
• Some shirts have button-down collars. Again, a few shirts for casual wear, a few for work, and others for formal use are all that the average man needs.
• Some good shoes. Men will want to own a variety of shoes to use at a particular time: formal shoes (for work and/or important use, etc.), tennis shoes, boots for work. , casual shoes (men’s boots, lace-up shoes, athletic shoes, etc.), or less formal shoes (oxford shoes, men’s boat shoes, loafers – also known as loafers, etc.). Mix and match styles depending on your needs and habits.

Do not use stimulants. Men are adventurous, and this makes it easier for them to find drugs. Self-satisfied people will not usually seek help using medication. Even when they face piles of bills, heavy work, and quite a few personal projects (not to mention football), men will find a way to appreciate the beauty of life without the need for it. sleeping pills.

Develop your own principles. The real man is not always comfortable being judge, juror, and executor, but he knows right and wrong and expects others to follow these rules as well. You should look into your soul and ask yourself: Would I want others to do the same to me? . This method will help you develop a life principle.

• An honest man will not steal, even when he is in need. They will learn to seek help from others instead of helping themselves by taking actions they are not authorized to take.
• Real men will help others when they need it. He knows well the times when others are having bad luck and need help, even if help is just in his gesture.
• An honest man will trust in his friends, in his lover, and in his family. He does what he says and expects others to do the same.
• He would never lie – to himself and to others. He develops a strong conscience that always gives him good feedback and allows him to feel comfortable with the truth, even if it is quite heartbreaking.

Be ambitious in your own way. Men are usually ambitious by nature. We all want to be the breadwinner in our family and earn the admiration and respect of everyone around us. However, not everyone chooses the same career path, so ambitions don’t have to be the same. Regardless of the career or profession you choose (you probably do a lot), you should set a goal for yourself to live with or overcome it, and renew yourself every time you do it. need. You should define your own meaning of success.

Seek responsibility and take responsibility for your actions. The main difference between a man and a boy, as well as an adult and a child, is that men have a greater sense of responsibility. Men honor their commitments, accept their obligations, and take responsibility for their actions. They will clean up the mess themselves (literally and figuratively).

• Real men know that anyone can be a father to a child, but only a real man, who understands and accepts his responsibilities, can be a good father.
• They usually don’t force others to help them do something they don’t want to do. And they appreciate the hardships and risks that others take on their behalf.

Learn to sacrifice for someone you love and care about. Sacrifice is part of growing up, whether you like it or not. The difference between a man and a boy is that a real man will face difficulties, while a boy will hesitate and complain. Especially for someone they love in life, true men will make sacrifices – whether that means giving time, money, or other resources to others – like is his duty.

Become a good man. Integrity is doing the right thing, for the right reason, even when people don’t look at you . It is easy for you to think that by completing your duties as a man, you have done the job, but this mindset does not make you a good person . Never stop doing the right thing and reassess your character and integrity. If you want to be a real man, be a good man, or else you better just be a boy forever.

Use the elegant nature of your soul. The gentleman inside you will tell you what you should – but sometimes are too lazy – to take:

• Pay for a meal, unless the other party sees the gesture as belittling a woman. You should be careful.
• Open the door, pull up a chair, and say “please” and “thank you”. Always remember to prioritize respect for the other party over yourself.
• Housework. Some people in long-term relationships often avoid their responsibilities with household chores: forgetting to take out the trash, wash the dishes, change diapers. True men know well that they need to share the housework with the one they love, no matter how uncomfortable they may be.
• Be a polite loser. Men are often competitive, making this a challenge for some. You should accept defeat with the same grace as victory. Easier said than done.

Do not discuss your personal love affairs. Men often enjoy the pursuit of love, but are often lured into bragging about their conquests. Don’t fall victim to the idea that if you don’t brag about it, it won’t happen. Success in love will be enough to prove this. Silent confidence can even make your friends think you’re a pretty hottie for women, even if this isn’t true.

Always remember to respect the person you love. The simple list of do’s and don’ts includes:

• Should :
  • Listen to what they say.
  • Forgive them when they make small mistakes.
  • Do what you said.
  • Treat them the same way you would like to be treated.
• Should not :
  • Unrealistic expectations about them.
  • Manipulate them to get what you want.
  • See them as an object instead of a person.
  • Assume that you know their feelings or reactions well.

Do not push the romantic relationship. Many people often push women to put them in awkward situations. In this way, they not only alienate the other person, but also prevent themselves from getting what they want. A real man knows that when it comes to dating, it’s the woman who sets the pace: if she wants to jump into a quick love affair, he’ll play along; If she wants things to go slower, he’ll reassure her that he wants to be with her in the long run. By allowing her to develop at her own pace, the real man is leading the relationship to success and will often achieve more than expected.