How to Be a Good Husband

Find little ways to make her feel important. You should ask yourself, what can I do to make my wife feel even happier? It doesn’t have to be something big to be effective. Every relationship is nurtured from the little things. It is the thinking behind it, and the feeling inside, that is the real gift:

• Take the time to develop good feelings for your wife’s family. She will appreciate it when you have a good relationship with her parents. Maybe you don’t see them every day, but that doesn’t matter, the point is that your wife wants you to love her parents like your own.
• Is your wife interested in philanthropy? You can use her name to raise some money for some charity as a gift for your wife. She will become a proud philanthropist and give opportunity to other unfortunates.
• Do chores around the house that she doesn’t like to do. For example, if your wife doesn’t like to do the dishes, you can give her a short-term “dishwashing waiver” voucher for a week when you don’t need to do the work.

Be open. It may sound weird, but being open with your partner is actually an expression of love: it shows them that you trust them and, more importantly, that you enjoy being around them. emotionally. Women are often emotional; Men are less. When you open up, she’ll be reassured that you’re doing this for her.

Show that you love your wife. Why did you marry her in the first place? Once in a while, tell your wife why you love her and how she makes you feel every day. This is a good habit to promote love in a marriage, and at the same time reduce stress.

• Write your wife a short letter. You can hide it under the pillow, wait until it’s time to kiss her goodbye in the morning, and then remind her to check under the pillow. The text of the message can be: “Every day I’m with you, I realize how lucky I am. I love you.”
• Approach her from behind when she knows you’re in the room, then wrap your arms around her and place a sincere kiss on her neck. This will melt her heart.
• You can make your own romantic fortune cookie (a kind of semicircle with a good message inside). Find a way to stuff your own message inside the cookie for your wife to find out when she breaks the cookie in half. Write something like: “Only you can break my heart….”

A source of encouragement for her. Actively support your wife with sincere efforts. Whether it’s encouragement when she wants to learn Latin dance or when she wants to go out with her friends, your support will give her a sense of security and she’ll be ready to take anticipated risks. . When the whole world turns her back, she will know that she still has you, you are her strong support, inspiration and lighthouse in the night.

• Whenever your wife is upset, you should find ways to improve her mood. Bring breakfast to your bed, give your wife a foot massage, or take her to her favorite movie. Again, the little things can make a big difference.

Back to being a romantic “man”. This may not be the first thing you think of every morning, but romance is essential to a healthy marriage. Don’t assume that because you two are married, you don’t have to try to be romantic with your wife anymore. This thinking isn’t just wrong — what if your wife decides not to control her weight after marriage? — but also takes away some of the joys of marriage. So be a man and do men’s things. That’s being romantic.

• Date night once a month. Some couples manage to go on a date once a week, but once a month is enough. Make a plan to reminisce about dates you and your spouse have had during your research or discuss a date that can make your heart flutter again, naming a few activities together such as: : skydiving, scuba diving or watching a movie, etc.
• Celebrate the wedding anniversary. Celebrating your wedding day is really important to your partner, and so are you. The occasion is symbolic and offers an opportunity to renew the love between two people. You must never forget this day. At the very least, have a romantic dinner together with a bottle of chilled wine.
• Maintain warmth in sex. Don’t let things cool down, or just take it for granted. You should try to please your wife as she did for you and always learn more about each other’s sex lives through each other’s bodies.

Trust your wife completely. A lot of the issues covered in this article revolve around trust. If you don’t trust your partner, you may end up living in a miserable place. You need to learn to trust your wife as she trusts you.

Show your personality. Marriage is a lasting opportunity to get to know a person better over the years. If you keep an aspect of your personality a secret or hold it back, you won’t get everything you want in a marriage. If you give your best: you will get what you want.

• Two people can talk for a long time; make fun of her to laugh; share interests, hobbies and work; take her somewhere special to the two of you; encourage her to get to know your relatives (and you too); argue with each other; share fears, doubts and vulnerabilities; Be yourself, not the husband you think she wants.

Remember the golden rule. Not only is it important in the concept of morality, it also helps us navigate through the turbulent times of marriage. The golden rule is to treat others the way you want to be treated. All encapsulated in the sentence “always put yourself in the shoes of others” before taking action.

• Of course, you need to have the right perspective if you want to use the golden rule, and you can’t lie to yourself about what other people want. If you’re unsure about something, ask yourself, “What would I want if I were her?” This is also a good exercise for you.

If you are religious, share your religion with your wife. When you both work towards the same faith, you will both gain strength and actively seek meaning in your life’s journey. Give yourself wholeheartedly to your partner, just as you would with God. Try to preserve those values for the rest of your life.