How to Ask a Girl Out

Asking a girl out is relatively easy. We just have to ask, right? But that’s not always so simple if you’re shy or overly nervous. You can choose between getting up and being brave, or forever falling behind and wondering what could have happened. Read the following instructions, then gather up your courage and ask her out.

Table of Contents

Before first contact

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Evaluate interest . Does she make eye contact with you? Does she smile, laugh, or have a good time talking to you? If so, you’re on the right track. So what if she keeps looking at you because she’s upset and doesn’t understand why you keep looking at her? This is not a good sign because she seems a bit stressed. You need to make sure your feelings for her are kept private and not obvious.

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Notice how often she touches you. If she suddenly touches your arm or finds a reason to do it, she might like you. However, just because she doesn’t touch you doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you. Similarly, you should not touch her if she is not actively connecting. This will make her afraid or feel apprehensive. If she doesn’t even look at you, stay calm and find an excuse to talk to her.

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Evaluate the way she looks at you. If she likes you, she will either hold your gaze for a long time or turn away immediately. Both of these signs can indicate that she likes you. If you sneak a peek at her and find that she’s looking back at you too, this has two possibilities: she likes you or she doesn’t, and when discovered she will quickly turn her head the other way. If she looks at you meaningfully, check your teeth for any stains. If she turns away quickly, she’s probably nervous, but it shows she’s still pretty much into you.

Remember that in a conversation, girls tend to look at the other person’s face, so don’t make the mistake of thinking that she likes you, maybe she’s simply listening because the two of you are talking. If you’ve never talked to her, the chances of her agreeing to date you are very low. Friendship can lead to love, but not being friends leads to nothing.

Interact with her

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Look straight at her. Make sure you look at her face, especially her eyes, during the conversation. Pay attention to what she says so that when she asks you back or stops talking, you can continue the conversation smoothly. Don’t get caught staring at her body (especially breasts). Most women don’t like that. If she doesn’t look at you or ignore you, step back and leave her alone for a while. Some girls don’t like talking and looking into the eyes of a guy. Read her body language.

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Help her. Offer to carry her loads, get her lunch at work, do something nice for her. If she refuses, wait until she really needs help or feels comfortable, like when she’s tired and having a bad day. Approach her in a friendly manner. If she leaves quickly, don’t follow or say, “What’s wrong??”, try again next time.

Open your mouth

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You have to be cool and have a nice scent. You don’t have to wear a suit and tie to ask a girl out, just make sure your clothes are clean and fit, don’t forget to brush your teeth and use deodorant. You should also never wear clothes again, for example, if you wear a pair of red elastic pants on Monday, don’t wear it again on Tuesday.

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Approach the girl you like. Don’t worry that you need to talk about something really interesting. Just say “Hi” or “Honey” to get started. As the conversation continues you can give her a compliment or ask a question.

If the ability to start a conversation is not your strong point, read this article

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Maintain a normal and cheerful tone of voice. Don’t act serious. Let’s flirt a little! Relax, make jokes and break the touch barrier.

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Ask her out when the time is right. Invite her to the movies or do something you both enjoy. You can also invite her to the bar and enjoy. Make the occasion unique.

You might say, “I’ve heard a lot about the movie _______. How do you feel about it?” If she says it looks good, ask her if she’d like to go see it with you. If she asks “Was it a date?” please answer right. Girls prefer brave guys to shy guys.
You can also say this in a normal tone: “I’m going to visit that art show on Saturday night. Would you like to come along? I bet it would be fun if you came with me. ”

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Be confident. If she wonders if it’s a date, confirm it. Girls like guys who are sure of themselves.

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Prepare for rejection. Stay calm if she says no, smile, and respond calmly, “It’s okay! Another time is fine.” Redirect the conversation or leave if you don’t want to hang around her. Act like you don’t need her, because that will sometimes pique her interest. If she makes an attitude and exclaims, “What do you think?” This shows that she greatly underestimates you. In this case, leave her alone and find another girl. However, don’t let yourself get hurt, this will make you lose your vitality. It’s just that some girls just don’t fit your type.

Advice

Ask her out when you’re both alone. She will feel pressured if there are many people around and the answer will not be correct.
Remember that every girl is different and these tips don’t apply to all women, so use your own judgment.
Feeling comfortable and confident is the difference between comfortable silence and unbearable silence. Silence is natural in dialogue. Do not worry. Maybe she’s nervous too.
Don’t be afraid of rejection. Many straight girls can let you down easily. Some girls agree to go on a date just because you asked them to and they want to be polite. Don’t misunderstand that. Just because she likes you enough to not want to hurt you doesn’t mean she’s ready for a relationship.
Invite her out directly. Asking via email or a social network like Facebook would be seen as disrespectful. Many girls will admire your confidence if you are not arrogant about it.
When approaching a girl, try starting a conversation by saying, “Friend, can I talk to you for a minute?” or “Can I ask you something?” You need to make the conversation as smooth as possible.
To increase your chances of her agreeing to go out with you, you need to show that you have the qualities she wants. If you attract her before you ask out, it will take some of the pressure off when you muster up your courage and speak up.
If you tend to date a lot of people, then she might think you’re a playboy and don’t want to socialize. Girls often hang out with guys who are trustworthy and can keep the relationship going. The worst thing for a girl is when a guy asks her out and then breaks up quickly.
Sometimes women can get nervous when guys approach them. If she bites her lip, turns away, blushes a lot, or shows any other signs of anxiety, give her time to think about it. Two or three weeks later, feel free to ask again and she may say yes.

Warning

Don’t assume that they are giving you the green light . Just because a girl is friendly doesn’t mean they have a crush on you. Maybe she’s a friendly person showing kindness by talking to people.
Chances of rejection are higher if you don’t invite her out directly. Avoid using email, phone or Facebook/Twitter to ask someone out on a date.
Be persistent, but don’t be too persistent. If she turns you down gently, she’s politely telling you that she’s not interested. If she flatly refuses, turn away. Don’t be a stalker in her eyes.
When you find a girl you feel like asking out, look for signs by how she reacts to you. If she keeps clinging to you even when you’re not hanging out together, it’s best to reconsider. When you ask her out, watch her reaction. Some girls often overreact to very small things.
You don’t have to be friends with a girl before you ask them out. You can meet any girl you meet on the street or in a coffee shop and suggest a date. Just make sure you impress her first.

Steps

Before first contact

Interact with her

Open your mouth

Advice

Warning

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