How to Attract a Girl

At the beginning of a relationship, always take the initiative to initiate a conversation. Of course, this depends on each woman and situation, if you don’t want to follow in the footsteps of most guys, never ask a bunch of useless questions or try to find similarities between them. two people, this inadvertently puts pressure on the other party. Conversations can take up 75% of the time, or maybe less. The goal here is to define your unique personality as well as your self-worth. Try to keep the conversation fun, interesting, and positive. Is there a “flirting” style that you would like to adopt during your outing? Take a look at the choices below:

• The arrogant but funny guy:
  • “You may have heard this many times before, but I still have to say you are the most amazing woman I’ve ever seen… in the last three minutes.”
  • “Actually, I don’t want to go out with my friends at all, but I don’t regret going out tonight, because that’s how I get to see you right now.”
• The type of guy who is shy and shy:
  • “I’m sorry for the inconvenience, but I’m quite shy in the face of cute girls like you.”
  • “I’m so glad you’re still here. I’ve been trying to muster up the courage to talk to you for half an hour, and I’m rather worried I’ll cause embarrassment in front of you, who’s a complete gentleman. elegant.”
• The bold, upright type of guy:
  • “Hi, my name is [your name], what brought you here tonight?”
  • “This must be the part where I introduce myself, then you smile shyly and let me offer you a drink, right?”
  • “I’m trying to think of a good reason to talk to you, but nothing comes to mind. Or are you going to tell an interesting story that happened to you the other day?”

Avoid talking about serious topics like work, politics, or anything negative. Always master the conversation, but don’t try to dominate the whole conversation. Limit yourself to an interview situation with questions, like “Where are you from?” or “What are you doing here?” Instead, try tapping into the adventurous yet self-directed side of yourself, and channel that energy.

• If the other party brings up a topic that could steer the conversation in the wrong direction, subtly redirect the conversation in another direction. Say something related to the main topic, but it should be fun, comfortable, and especially not change the content being discussed.
• In the event that the other party continues to bring up topics that are distracting from the conversation, you have two possible options:
  • Exploiting all the elements of that topic, she seems eager to tell you the same thing.
  • Find a polite way to get away from a boring topic, instead of focusing on one person. A simple statement like “It’s fun to talk to you” can also help you get out of this awkward situation.

Use politeness to overcome past barriers. Most women say they have a boyfriend when they feel like they’re not attractive enough for you. Also, the people who mentioned this actually have a boyfriend, then you’re close to the first hurdle. Don’t be irritable though, challenges are often created for us to overcome. Be forgiving and let the past pass.

• When a girl says “I have a boyfriend, you’d better not talk to me” give her a small smile, say you’re happy to meet her, and look for another guy. Life sometimes doesn’t go as expected!
• But if she says “I’ve got a boyfriend” and stops there, you can continue: “No problem, I respect that. Do you mind if we stay in touch, like the others? friend?” Once consent is obtained, continue with the plan to pursue the subject. Try, and you will succeed.
• Never assume that you can get the phone number of someone who is in a relationship or married. In case the girl mentions her boyfriend, you should look the other way from that point on unless your lifelong wish is to get her number.

Don’t care about the results. Don’t worry too much about whether the other person notices you or not. If she’s attracted, that’s your reward; otherwise, simply switch to another object.

• Do not accept the hurt in their self-esteem, the boys often stubbornly win the attention of the other party to the end, then even they will have to go through the pain, over and over again, because at any given time, they are bound to receive a rejection. Refusal is natural. If you fall because of one opportunity now, you will probably miss many more opportunities in the future.