How to Conquer an Ex-Girlfriend

Give her her own space. The first thing you need to do is give her space. If you keep coming to see her and keep calling, she will try to avoid you. The time and space you spend with her will depend on what happened while you two were dating. If you’ve just ended a serious relationship, you need to give her more space than if you’ve only been on a couple of dates.

• Don’t take the initiative to call or chat with her when you meet or email her to check on her.
• If you happen to run into her, be polite and greet her with a smile, but make it clear that you won’t bother her.
• However, don’t give her too much personal space. If you are away from her for too long, this will give her time to get to know other people.

Take time for yourself to reflect. Not only does she need her own space, but you also need to give yourself time to reflect on what went wrong in your relationship. Take some time to sit down and ask yourself what you did to make her say goodbye; Have you been controlling too tightly, becoming emotional or cold? Whatever it is, you should make sure you never let it happen again if you want to win her back.

• Write down mistakes. Think about what you can do to change those behaviors.
• Don’t date anyone during the contemplation phase. Focus on improving yourself and try not to repeat previous mistakes.
• Don’t pursue her until you realize your mistake and know how to fix it.

Get busy. While you should avoid getting busy with other relationships while trying to win over your ex, you can choose to live an active, busy lifestyle with plans to become independent and Pursue your hobby. If you just sit back and wait until it’s enough time to start getting back together with her, she’ll quickly figure it out.

• Continue pursuing your interests and passions. Don’t put off the things you love just because of a broken heart.
• Spend time with friends. They will encourage and share with you a different perspective on the problem you are facing.
• Do exercise. Your self-esteem will improve after a few weeks of exercise, and things will get better when she knows you’re training yourself.

Show her that you are living a happy life. Once you’ve given her space and tried to improve herself, she’ll want to come back to you even more. However, now it’s time for you to sort things out and let her see what a wonderful man you are and how happy you are to be around. Let’s plan. You shouldn’t be a stalker, but you can plan to show up where she usually goes so she can feel the joy of being around you.

• Laghing out loud. When you know she’s looking at you, you will try to smile freely with your friends in a natural way.
• Become lively. When she’s around, you should show enthusiasm and interest in the conversation, letting her see that you’re a passionate person who enjoys chatting with friends.
• Don’t ignore her when you see her. You’ll wave goodbye and return to your conversation.
• Dancing. That’s right. Maybe this will make her a little sad that she can’t dance with you like she used to. Let her see you drunkenly dancing in the crowd.
• Show her your best side. There must be something about her liking you; so you should take advantage of it.

Make her jealous (optional). This is an optional step as it depends on the situation. If the previous relationship ended because she was jealous that you often met other girls, you should not make her jealous or she will remember why your relationship didn’t work out well. . However, if the two of you broke up because she thinks you love her so much that she doesn’t care about anything else or she doesn’t find you interesting, making her jealous will be a breakthrough. You will do the following:

• While chatting, you will mention other girls. You can talk about a girl a few times so that she has to wonder “Who is that girl?”. Or you talk about a group of girls, mentioning that you went to a party that had a lot of female guests, but you also just felt normal.
• Let her see you around other girls. You’ll say a few words to her before moving on to flirting with another girl nearby. Make sure you don’t stand too far away so she can see everything clearly.
• Don’t overdo it. If she hears you talking about other girls and flirting with others, she’ll probably want to get back with you more, but if you’re infatuated with every girl at parties, it sounds like you’re desperate or indecisive.