How to Know He’s Your Half

Notice when he says “I love you”. It’s great for him to say “I love you too” after you say you love him, but it’s important that you’re not the only one who says he loves you first. Sometimes he needs to say it first, too. This action shows that he thinks about how much he cares about you, and that he’s not merely saying the normative things he assumes you’re expecting.

• Don’t worry too much if he doesn’t do it, though. Some guys are shy about sharing their feelings. Ask him why he never says love first, and tell him you love hearing words of love. This can make him more comfortable saying he loves you.

Make sure he’s not forcing you to be intimate before you’re ready. Someone who wants to enjoy your body before your heart is ready will clearly not care about your needs. (And if he’s blinded by sexual desires, he won’t be able to resist the temptation to promise a home or build one.)

• Keep this thought of balance in mind. Neither of you should ignore each other’s needs, which means that as well as taking care of his needs, you also need to make sure he takes care of yours.

Notice if he’s controlling you. If he constantly forces you to do this and that, tries to control your life, or manipulates your emotions to get what he wants, watch out! The guy is insecure and feels that he has to take control of your relationship. Your authentic “other half” should be confident around you and let you be yourself.

Notice if he stops you from getting close to his friends. If he turns down your participation in his social plans and avoids talking about what he and his friends did last night, he clearly doesn’t want you in his life, or even what he’s doing. something shady behind your back.

Notice if he’s alluding to your future. If your relationship hasn’t reached the point where you can openly discuss future possibilities, watch out for any hints or hints from him. Even a little thing, like wondering what the two of you will do at an event for at least the next month or two, is a good sign.

• If he proposes to you too soon (say, less than a year), take the time to analyze why he’s in such a hurry. If you’re inclined to be content, suggest a long engagement period to be sure.
• If he doesn’t discuss your shared future at all – even after a long period of time (say, a year) – he may not even consider your future.

Notice if you spontaneously remember his birthday, your anniversaries, and important dates for him. Here’s a way to determine if he’s worth your attention even when he’s not around; Making space for someone in your life is one thing, but making space for him in your mind is another story entirely.

Notice if you compliment him when he’s not very well groomed. Do you find it attractive even when there is food on his teeth, or when his hair is flat from wearing a helmet? Or how much you like him depends on how well he grooms you for you?

Notice if you’re interested in letting him into your life. Wanting to compliment him in front of his friends and wanting him to be part of the family is a clear sign of confidence. In other words, if you don’t feel secure in a relationship, you’ll subconsciously find excuses not to introduce or discuss him.

• Do you include him in your family plans, like asking him to go on a vacation with your family (or even assuming he’ll go with your family without an invitation)?
• Do you want to help him get along with his family (or defend him) because it’s so important that they like you?
• Have you ever suggested that he call your mom when he needs advice on cooking, cleaning, etc.?

Notice how the two of you change the other half. As humans, we constantly change when we spend a lot of time with other people (especially someone we care deeply about). Sometimes we change the other person for the better but sometimes we change them for the worse. You need to decide if you’re a positive influence for him and if he’s a good influence on you, too.

• Do you find that one of you is becoming increasingly possessive, jealous, distrustful, lazy, or constantly stressed? That’s definitely not someone you want to be with. They’re definitely not the right person for you, and you won’t like the person you’ll become when you’re with them.
• Do you find that the two of you inspire each other to be better together? Do you strive more in life and for yourself when you’re with him? And so is he? Do you help each other become better and happier? It is a healthy relationship and you will help your partner’s life improve more positively.

Think about his lifestyle. Does it align with what you hope for the future? Does he share the same values as you? For example, if you recycle trash but he throws it out the car window, can this relationship go anywhere?

Pay attention to how the two of you say you care. Is he comfortable letting you see his sensitive side? Do you openly say you love him, even using quantitative words like “I love you so much” or actively starting the “I love you more” game?

• Look for the difference between what is said and what is communicated . We are often blindsided when someone makes sweet words about their love, making it impossible for us to see if they have done anything to prove their words. In the same way, we can get upset because someone refuses to say anything sweet, to the point that we don’t notice the kind and loving gestures they bring. Think about whether one of you falls into any of these categories.

Notice how comfortable you both feel when you’re in the same space as your other half. People often say that living together is the real test of conformity; A relationship that takes place entirely at a restaurant or a park may be full of alcohol and roses, but having to split the dishes, watch the other use a razor, or deal with filthy clothes will dispel all illusions instantly. If you live together, do you compromise on individual and shared responsibilities? If not, have you at least exchanged the keys to your residence? If you did, how comfortable are you both?