How to Seduce a Woman

Know how to use scent effectively. When inviting a girl to your home, the key to successful seduction is having a pleasant scent. Before she arrives, don’t forget to open the door a few hours in advance to get rid of the unpleasant odors in the house. Light some candles. Pay attention to scents that are light and not too strong, such as vanilla or incense. Take the time to find out in advance what she likes. You can try asking scent questions during the conversation, for example asking her what perfume or shower gel she likes to get a better idea of her preferences. ^[11]

Turn on music. A little soft music might inspire her. But the important thing here is to focus on what she likes, not what you like. Choose a genre of music she’s interested in that’s slow, soothing, and inspiring.

• Ask her first about her taste in music. Try playing a band she’s a fan of, but choose a song with a slow beat. Pop music seems to make people want to dance more than physical desire. ^[12]
• Classical music, such as those performed by Barry White, often leads your story in a rather cheesy context. Don’t stick to traditional choices so your date won’t end with her tired eye roll. ^[13]

Decorate. The surroundings have a big impact on the art of seducing someone. Get inspired by getting started on decorating.

• Lighting candles is a great way to get inspired. If this is your first time spending the night with a girl, she will feel a little insecure. Turning down the lights and using candles can help her feel more comfortable taking off her clothes. For a lot of people, candles are seen as an expression of romance. ^[14]
• Do a little cleaning of your house before she arrives. A neat and clean house can prove that you are responsible and well-groomed. This will interest a lot of people.

The first close. Move slowly when starting things. For example: walk up to her and put your hand on her knee or shoulder. Again: pacing is the key to seduction. Too much haste can ruin everything.

• The first kiss should be done gently, it is more than a quick kiss but not necessarily too passionate. Let herself want more than that. It would be great if you found out her favorite kissing style. Try to find out how she responds to your kiss back as it will greatly help in getting to know her better. ^[15]
• In case you want to go after someone you’ve known for a long time, try starting things out in unexpected places. Some couples who have been together for a long time often express their love in a rudimentary fashion and this can be boring. Change your appetite by talking or making love in the kitchen, or even jumping into the bathroom with your partner. ^[16]

Focus on her sensitive areas. Sensitive areas of the body will be stimulated lust when touched, kissed, licked or caressed. Sensitive areas of the body are different for each person. But some women tend to be sensitive to certain areas of the body.

• The area in the neck and ears is where many nerves are concentrated. A lot of people skip these parts. So the area around the ears and neck gets irritated if someone gently kisses, sucks, licks and bites.
• For many girls, the area on the head and feet is the most sensitive place. Lightly massaging the scalp or feet can make foreplay easier.
• Focus on the lips while kissing. Try licking, biting, and sucking on her lips.
• Women also have sexual pleasure when touched in areas of the abdomen, lower back, and inner thighs. ^[17]