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This article was co-written by Trudi Griffin, LPC, MS. Trudi Griffin is a licensed professional counselor in Wisconsin. She received her MS in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Marquette University in 2011.
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Living with a bisexual husband is not easy, especially when you enter a relationship and expect many things in it. While finding out your husband is bisexual can affect the foundation of your marriage, it doesn’t mean the relationship is coming to an end. On the contrary, many couples find that hermaphrodites pave the way for a satisfying, trusting, and honest relationship.
Steps
Support
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Accept your husband for who he really is. He still has qualities that make you fall in love, and her hermaphroditism is another quality you just discovered. This personality also confirms his persona. As a bed partner, he needs your love and support, and the relationship will still work out if you can accept his new personality. [1] X Research Source
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Research on duality. Understanding the characteristics of bisexual people helps you get to know your husband better. [2] X Research Sources Hermaphroditism has no fixed pattern, as each individual has completely different emotions and feelings. Bisexual people are often sexually attracted to both sexes. People of this nature also tend to love many individuals first, often with little attention to specific genders. [3] X Research Sources There are many rumors about hermaphroditism affecting relationships if you do not understand that these are actually just myths. If you understand the husband’s feelings, the relationship between the two will be stronger: [4] X Research Source
- Rumor: A person can be gay or heterosexual but not both at the same time.
- Humans are complex individuals and have many different sexual orientations, including heterosexual (attracted to the opposite sex), gay (attracted to the same sex), bisexual (attracted to the opposite sex). bisexual or more), asexual (not attracted to people of any gender), pansexual (attracted to any gender), or pseudo-hermaphrodite (attracted to transgender people) . [5] X Research Sources
- Rumor: Bisexuals can’t be faithful.
- A person can choose to live monogamously. An individual’s sexual orientation does not determine the ability or desire to have a faithful monogamous relationship. Both parties decide for themselves what a monogamous marriage means.
- Myth: Bisexuals have more sexually transmitted diseases.
- The incidence of STIs does not correlate with a person’s sexual orientation. Rather, the rate is related to the individual’s ability to protect themselves from sexually transmitted diseases.
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Restart the relationship. You need to realize that your relationship has entered a new phase. If you want your marriage to succeed and continue, you need to be willing to change. He’s still the husband you’ve been living with all along, but now you know more about his desires and feelings. You should understand that you need to start all over again, with some new limits and expectations about what marriage means to both of you. [6] X Research Source
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Talk to your husband about his wishes. Your husband may have been struggling with bisexuality for a long time. If he’s not telling you right now, he’s probably trying to hide how he really feels. The husband knows that they both trust and respect each other. He was brave enough to be honest with you. Now you can go a step further by talking to your husband about what he wants. What kind of marriage does he want? Does he want another life partner? Or do you still want to have only one wife? [7] X Research Sources
Communicating with the husband
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You need to know that talking about gender is not an easy thing. Both of you may feel awkward about this sensitive topic. For the husband, this could be the first time he’s confessed his bisexuality. Your husband feels stressed and anxious about you uncovering your deepest secrets, about keeping your feelings hidden, or about what other people think of him. [8] X Sources of Research You may, for your part, experience anxiety, including feelings of emptiness, concerns about relationships, or the attitudes of family members. .
- To start a conversation, both of you should be patient and understand each other. Both parties need to know that they love their other half and want them to be happy.
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Be open to your opponent. In order for your relationship to work better, you need to communicate honestly with the other person. Schedule a time every day or every week when you can both talk without being disturbed. Talk about your concerns openly and supportively. [9] X Research Source
- You can ask the husband if he is having an affair with someone else, and if so, when. [10] X Research Sources Being bisexual doesn’t mean he’s cheating on you by default. But if he’s going to be in a relationship with someone else, both of you should be honest about it. Lies and deceptions do not make marriages better.
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Mention your position in a monogamous relationship. When a person has a bisexual personality, the wife often worries about the husband’s possible unfaithfulness. If your husband wants a multi-partner marriage, and you agree, then support him in doing so. [11] X Research Source
- Many bisexual couples have long-term monogamous relationships. You need to determine what you want out of the relationship.
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Set limits. You should be clear about what you want in this relationship. You can come up with some rules about your other partner, or sexual activity that you’re both willing to engage in. [12] X Research Source Do you agree for your husband to have sex with another person or multiple people at the same time? To what extent would you like to participate?
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Determine what you both want to share with family and friends. As you and your husband begin to understand life in this new phase, you may choose to share some information with family and friends. If you have children, think about how to talk to them about bisexuality.
- You need to remember that when you “disclose” with your children, you should have a frank talk about the matter so they can ask questions and understand how you feel. Be patient and give them time to accept the truth. [13] X Research Source
Continue with your daily life
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You need to realize that you don’t need to change everything about sexual activity. Life goes on with work pressure, nagging headaches, grocery shopping, and many other activities. Daily life continues as before the husband reveals to you that he is bisexual.
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Make sure other aspects of life remain fun and interesting. Married life when there is only physical intimacy. You can both find common interests and activities together. Travel together. Nurturing a fulfilling life in many different ways. [14] X Research Source
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Explore your sexual desires. Talking openly about your partner’s sexual activity and desires is an opportunity to express your sexual desires. You’re still attractive in your husband’s eyes and he wants you to be free to figure out what excites you. [15] X Research Source
- Many people experience sexual awareness when they realize their husband is bisexual. Relationships become stronger and help them feel more fulfilled. [16] X Research Source
Seeking support
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Go to the LGBT center for support. The LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender) Center is where you get health and counseling information, as well as a list of LGBT-friendly businesses and communities.
- Find your local LGBT center by visiting the CenterLink: Community LGBT Center website.
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Meet with a mental health professional. An expert in relationship issues and sexual activity can help you understand your relationship and your husband’s feelings. Maybe you feel anxiety or some emotions arise in the relationship, and this helps you to take a deeper look at how you are feeling.
- If you feel like your relationship is in trouble, you should seek couples counseling. Currently, there are many specialists in the field of LGBT community. [17] X Research Source
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Talk to a trusted relative or friend. You may feel that your sex life in your marriage is a private matter, but this will help you change your perspective on the matter. You should choose someone who is not judgmental and is willing to respect you and be trustworthy.
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This article was co-written by Trudi Griffin, LPC, MS. Trudi Griffin is a licensed professional counselor in Wisconsin. She received her MS in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Marquette University in 2011.
There are 10 references cited in this article that you can view at the bottom of the page.
This article has been viewed 13,007 times.
Living with a bisexual husband is not easy, especially when you enter a relationship and expect many things in it. While finding out your husband is bisexual can affect the foundation of your marriage, it doesn’t mean the relationship is coming to an end. On the contrary, many couples find that hermaphrodites pave the way for a satisfying, trusting, and honest relationship.
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