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This article was co-written by Michele Fields. Michele Fields is a matchmaker, dating coach, and owner of Bon Jour Matchmaking based in Denver, Cporado. With over thirty years of experience, she specializes in helping clients find a life partner and overcome dating and marital difficulties. Michele has successfully matched 300 couples and been featured on Denver ABC News, Rocky Mountain News, Cporado 2 News, Denver Westworld and Denver Post.
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When you hear someone say “I miss you” perhaps your heart can’t help but pound and your mind goes blank, not knowing how to respond. When a guy says these three words to you, chances are he likes you. It’s great if you like him too, but if you want to let go of your ex and move on, it probably won’t be so much fun. Don’t freak out, take a deep breath and read on as we’ve helped you put together a list of ways to answer in any situation.
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What does he mean when he says he misses you?
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He likes you. Does he say “I miss you” when he looks you in the eye? Did he say this after you two had a deep conversation? Those are signs that he is infatuated with you. Maybe the two of you have been chatting for hours on the phone, video chat, or face-to-face. Whatever it is, if there’s a flutter between the two of you and he blurts it out in a moment of silence, chances are he’s already in love with you. [1] X Research Source
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He is thinking of you. You’re taking over his mind if he suddenly says he misses you. Maybe the two of you are old friends who have long since lost touch and he remembers something funny about you from the old days, or he is your long-distance boyfriend counting the days to see you again. If he has the courage to say “I miss you,” then he’s thinking about the connection you both have or once had with each other. [2] X Research Source
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He wants to get back to you. There’s no denying that a breakup is painful, and saying “I miss you” from an ex can stir up conflicting emotions. Maybe the two of you have just broken up, or the two sides have long gone their separate ways. Think about the context of the situation: is he saying this to be polite, is he using a trick to manipulate you, or does he miss being with you? [3] X Research Sources
- Maybe he doesn’t know what to say in an awkward situation, and “I miss you” might be the first genuine thought that comes to mind.
- He may try to win you back. This can be a bad game and you should not let anyone play with your feelings.
- Maybe his feelings are aroused when he sees you. That feeling might flash, but he’s probably missing the feeling of being with you, not the actual relationship.
Reply to lover or boyfriend
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Say you feel the same way as him. Maybe he’s far away and you don’t see each other very often, or he’s visiting family and is missing you. Either way, you probably miss him! When talking to him, whether on video chat or on the phone, smile and say things like:
- “I miss you twice as much.”
- “I miss you so much, honey.”
- “I swear I miss you more. What should I do when I can’t see your lovely face every day?”
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Tell him you wish you were with him. Long distance love is often not easy, especially what you need right now is a hug from your lover. Share your nostalgia with him and talk more about what you want to do when you two see each other again. Talk to him about your hopes to let him know that you’re serious about the relationship. [4] X Research Sources
- “I miss the times when you were here with me.”
- “I wish we were together now. I want to take you to this newly opened restaurant.”
- “I will take you to all my favorite places when we meet!”
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Use a countdown to make him look forward to seeing you again. You’re probably counting down the days until you see him again, so share it with him. Planning and looking to the future is an important part of maintaining long-distance relationships. The two of you are far apart, but the day to meet again is very near. Let him know you miss him too with lovely replies like:
- “Only a few more days until I see you!”
- “I’m counting down the days until I can rush into your arms!”
- “Do you believe I set a countdown until the day I see you again?”
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Say you’re thinking about him too. Let him know that his image is always on your mind. If he’s your crush, this is your chance to get his attention and confess that you feel the same way. If he’s your boyfriend, he’ll be happy to know you’re thinking about him, too. Try responding with something like:
- “Last night I dreamed that we were together.”
- “I’m only thinking of you now.”
- “I miss you so much that I can’t stop thinking about you.”
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Flirt with him to see what he remembers about you. Maybe your call late at night has lasted for hours, and with every passing minute you miss him more and more. When he whispers, “I miss you,” be shy and ask him where he misses you the most. This is a great way to get him to think about you and see the qualities of you that he likes best. Smile kindly and try asking the following questions:
- “So what do you remember?”
- “What do you remember about me?”
- “If I told you what I miss about you, would you tell me what you miss about me?”
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Play around a bit with flirty questions. Ask him what he would do if you were with him right now. This is a great hot question when the two of you talk over the phone or video chat. There’s nothing wrong with having a little fun, so just imagine what you’d do together if you were together.
- “What would you do if we were together?”
- “Tell me what I would do if you were right next to me!”
- “What would you say if I were with you right now?”
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Let him know what you miss him the most. You probably miss everything about him, so say “I miss you” in a special and unique way. Think of something specific that you remember about him, like his smile or his embrace. You might even think of something silly to make him laugh! [5] X Research Sources
- “I miss your hug.”
- “I miss your laugh.”
- “I remember the time I stole your sweatshirt.”
Responding to an ex
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Remember that there is some distance between the two of you if you are unsure about your feelings. There are many reasons for couples to leave each other. If you run into your ex again and aren’t sure where your relationship is going, stay friendly and polite, and remember that you’re no longer in contact. You can say things like: [6] X Research Sources
- “We haven’t talked in a while.”
- “It’s been a while, hasn’t it?”
- “I remember the last time we talked it was a long time ago.”
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Speak up if he just talks and doesn’t do it. Actions are more persuasive than words. If you’ve heard him say “I miss you” a thousand times but keep pushing you away, then now is the time to retaliate. Stand your ground with answers like: [7] X Research Sources
- “I miss you too.”
- “You should join the club.”
- “I can’t speak like you.”
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If you don’t feel like him, let him know. Speak clearly and straight to the point. Maybe you just don’t want to talk to him or need more time to get over the relationship, but you should be polite anyway. [8] X Research Sources
- “Don’t call me again. I really don’t want to talk.”
- “Our relationship is over, so don’t contact us anymore.”
- “I’m sorry, but I don’t feel like you. I think it’s time for both of us to forget about each other.”
Reply to a friend
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Say you miss him too in a friendly tone. It’s not just because you don’t have romantic feelings that you can’t miss him. Either way, he’s your best friend! Keep things natural by responding to him. If you don’t know the answer, choose one of the following:
- “I miss you too!”
- “Not as much as I miss you, friend!”
- “I miss our lunches together! It’s boring because my schedule doesn’t match up this year!”
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Respond by asking how he’s been these days. Maybe he called you to check in, maybe you ran into him at the store and he happily said “I miss you!” Continue the conversation with a smile and one of the quick questions below:
- “How are you?”
- “How are you living these days?”
- “Do you have anything new?”
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Ask him to explain if you don’t understand. Maybe he suddenly called you after years of not trusting each other. If you are confused as to why he said “Huy miss Ha”, don’t be afraid to ask. His answer will tell you where your friendship is.
- “What?”
- “What’s going on?”
- “Why does Huy feel that way?”
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This article was co-written by Michele Fields. Michele Fields is a matchmaker, dating coach, and owner of Bon Jour Matchmaking based in Denver, Cporado. With over thirty years of experience, she specializes in helping clients find a life partner and overcome dating and marital difficulties. Michele has successfully matched 300 couples and been featured on Denver ABC News, Rocky Mountain News, Cporado 2 News, Denver Westworld and Denver Post.
There are 9 references cited in this article that you can view at the bottom of the page.
This post has been viewed 16,088 times.
When you hear someone say “I miss you” perhaps your heart can’t help but pound and your mind goes blank, not knowing how to respond. When a guy says these three words to you, chances are he likes you. It’s great if you like him too, but if you want to let go of your ex and move on, it probably won’t be so much fun. Don’t freak out, take a deep breath and read on as we’ve helped you put together a list of ways to answer in any situation.
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