How to Be a Good Kisser

Start slowly. To initiate this type of kiss, you need to keep your mouth shut. You don’t want to push your partner or sound like you’re getting too excited. Start with a few slow, gentle, lingering kisses on your partner’s lips.

• Keep things interesting by changing the position of your lips during each kiss. Tilt your head slightly to the left or right, or switch sides completely so that your head is in a different position from the last kiss.

Look him in the eye between kisses. After the first kiss, step back a little and look your partner in the eye. Taking action gives you two benefits. One is that you’ll be able to gauge your partner’s attitude toward kissing and see if you should proceed.

• Second, you can take a few seconds to increase the romance by looking your partner in the eye and making small gestures, such as placing your hand on the back of their neck and pulling them closer to you to prepare. for the next kiss (if they show approval).

Consider putting your arms around the other person’s body. Kissing is a rather intimate experience; while leaning over in preparation for a kiss is perfectly normal, standing away from the person and allowing only “lips-to-lips” would look rather odd. Once your partner shows approval for your kisses, move closer to them and touch them more. Methods to do this include:

• Wrap your arms around your partner’s shoulder or around your waist.
• Place your hand on the back of your partner’s neck to deepen the kiss.
• Run your hand through your opponent’s hair.
• Move close to each other so that there is no distance between the two.

Don’t forget to breathe. Since your mouth is busy, you will have to breathe through your nose while kissing. If this method doesn’t give you enough air, move your face away from your partner every now and then to breathe. But don’t forget to keep kissing! (If you want).

Open your mouth a little. Once you’ve given your partner a few tongue-in-cheek kisses, it’s time to move on. Lock lips with your partner so that his bottom lip is between yours, then open your mouth slightly to signal to your partner that you’re ready for a French kiss.

• Of course, you shouldn’t open your mouth so wide that it looks like you’re “grabbing” the other person’s face. Instead, part your lips in a subtle and seductive way.

Continue kissing with your mouth open but without using your tongue for a few minutes. Before you start French kissing, spend some time on this type of kiss so that it’s easier to guide your partner into a more passionate kiss.

• If you have trouble finding the rhythm while kissing, open your mouth the same way you pronounce the word “ba” (though you shouldn’t say it out loud); This method can help you coordinate smoothly with the opponent. You can also try pronouncing the word “ma”.

Use your tongue a little. Start gently, moving your tongue closer to the person’s mouth. Avoid putting your tongue too deep in the opponent’s mouth right away as this will be quite unattractive. Move your tongue slowly, gently around your partner’s tongue and give your partner time to respond to your actions before moving further.

• Start by gently touching the tip of your tongue to the tip of the other person’s tongue.
• Pay attention to your opponent’s movements. Being a good kisser means getting along well with your partner and finding a rhythm that works for both of you. If they back off, stop using your tongue.

Use your tongue more. If you’re both comfortable with the passionate kiss, you can put your tongue deep inside the other person’s mouth and massage his or her tongue with your tongue. Using slow, playful movement can be quite appealing and will help you get a more passionate kiss. Let your tongue move around the other person’s mouth and make a circular motion around his or her tongue. However, when your kiss is getting stronger, there are a few things you should avoid.

• Don’t try to put your tongue too deep in the other person’s mouth. This action can bring about an unpleasant feeling similar to that of nausea for the person.
• Do not move the tongue “in and out” of the person’s mouth. Using gentle, gentle movements is more attractive than like a wild pinwheel constantly jabbing into the opponent’s face.
• Don’t use your tongue so much that it looks like you’re licking your partner’s face. Wet kisses are often sloppy, so you should avoid getting your saliva on your partner’s face or lips.

Adjust to the person’s kissing style. Part of being a good kisser is that you can tailor the kiss to your partner’s liking. Try doing different things while kissing and observe the person’s reaction. For example, you can use your tongue more, or ‘wrestle’ your partner’s tongue.

• It’s important to remember that everyone kisses differently. It may take some time for you to find the right type of kiss for your partner, but remember that they are also paying attention to your movements. Kiss is a duet, not a solo.

Try to avoid banging your teeth together. One action that can detract from romance is tooth collision. When kissing, tilt your head the other way to avoid touching your teeth. Do not open your mouth too wide, otherwise you will easily bang your teeth together.

Consider sucking on your partner’s lower lip. Gently (emphasize gentleness ) bite or suck on the person’s lower or upper lip. If done right, this can be quite arousing.

• If you suck so much that your partner’s lips are pulled away from their face, you’re doing it too hard. You should just suck on his lips gently and playfully, instead of being overly forceful.

Use your hands. Place your hand on the opponent’s waist, shoulder, face, or neck. If things are getting pretty hot, hug the person tightly and move your hands to various parts of his or her body. When you put your arm around the other person’s shoulder or neck, you can also say things like “come closer” “I like it” or “keep going”.

• Increase the intensity of the kiss by placing your hands behind your partner’s head and grabbing her or his hair. You can also gently stroke the person’s spine.
• However, you shouldn’t hug the person so tightly that she or he feels trapped. Let loose if the opponent starts to back away or move away. Never touch them without their consent. Stay away from the “inconspicuous” area until you’re sure the person wants you to touch it.

Do new things. Being a good kisser isn’t just about doing things perfectly – it’ll just make you pretty mechanical. Sometimes, it’s better if you can do things differently that can surprise your partner (in a good way) and make them want more.

• Try using your tongue to lick your partner’s parted lips, or quickly touch the roof of their mouth. They will probably find this quite strange, but also quite attractive.
• Try inhaling air from your mouth instead of your nose while the two of you are locking lips – similar to sucking each other’s breath into your body. This act can be quite intimate – as long as you don’t go overboard.
• Try dragging the kiss to your partner’s ear and sucking on their earlobe (beware of the earrings!).

Kiss another part of your partner’s body. Being a good kisser means knowing how to kiss places other than your partner’s lips. After the two of you have been kissing for a while, allow your lips to “roam”. Drag your kiss around the other person’s face and toward the neck or shoulder (if the person’s shoulders are clearly visible to you).

• Make sure you don’t wire the saliva to the opponent’s neck. Keep this type of kiss dry but equally intimate.

Show passion. The more excited you are about kissing, the more excited your partner will be. You should focus completely on this moment and avoid thinking about other things. Allow yourself to relax, and don’t spend all of your time wondering what your partner is thinking – let it flow and enjoy the moment!

• If your phone rings, don’t pick up. This action can make the other person think that you are not interested in kissing. Focus completely on the person and on what’s going on between the two of you.

Determine when and where to kiss the person. The casual kiss is reserved for friends and loved ones who care deeply about you. For example, this type of kiss is usually performed on the cheeks, hands or forehead.

• For many cultures, you might also kiss a friend or loved one on the cheek once or twice to greet and say goodbye. A kiss on the forehead is usually a more romantic kiss, and is appropriate for a lover, close friend, and/or ex.

Lips. To conduct a friendly kiss, you need to press your lips together and your lips must be completely dry. A steamy kiss can be uncomfortable, so make sure you wipe your lips before you kiss if necessary!

• For women, if you wear lipstick or lip gloss, you should wipe them off with a napkin before you kiss (unless, of course, you’re planning on leaving lipstick stains on your partner’s cheeks).