How to Fight (for girls)

Try to find another solution first. You should talk to your parents or teachers before a fight occurs. Try to find a way to solve the problem without resorting to violence. You may not want to appear weak in front of other girls, but if they only hang out with you because you’re tough, they won’t be sincere. They are not and never will be good friends. ^[1]

• Fighting can have many consequences. If you really seriously injure another person, even if they are the one causing the war, you will still be fined or handled according to the law. This happens even if you accidentally injure them badly, so it’s still better to avoid violence if possible.

No fighting on school grounds. You should choose an outside location because fighting in school can lead to suspension or even expulsion. However, note that, even if a fight occurs far away from school, you may still be dealt with by the school because fighting is an unacceptable behavior and way of dealing with problems.

Always look for allies to support. Chances are that the other girl is very good at fighting or her friends will jump in to fight, so you have to be on the same guard. This will help you avoid serious injury. When you’re with a few friends, the fight can be smaller because everyone won’t let things get out of hand. Tell your friends that you don’t want to make a big deal out of it, they just need to protect you!

Avoid being the first to move. You should avoid a fight if possible. Explain or convince her: whatever you do, don’t hit first. If you hold your ground and don’t say anything outrageous, you probably won’t need to hit. ^[2]

• Try to talk to stop the scuffle. You could say things like, “I’m tired of arguing like this. It’s not going to change anything. Can’t we just water the river and not the well?” or “Will that really solve the problem? We’d better go our separate ways.”

Find weak points. When she speaks, stay calm and assess where she is weak. If the person is shorter than you – attack from the top. If you are taller, focus on legs and abs. If your partner has long hair, grab her hair and pull her head down so she can’t see. ^[3]

Bow your head to support your fist. If the opponent is about to punch, tilt your head so that the punch hits the forehead or top of the head. Doing so will cause the opponent’s hand to hurt and not dare to continue punching. Moreover, this way also helps your body to be less damaged, your skull bones are very hard!

Turn to the side to avoid getting punched in the stomach. If the opponent tries to punch you in the stomach, rotate so that the punch only hits the side. Doing so will help protect your body from getting too badly injured.

Kick if you fall to the ground. You must absolutely avoid falling to the ground, but if you do, kick to stop the opponent from approaching, then look for an opportunity to get up, but do not turn your back to the opponent. If these methods don’t work, crouch to protect your body. ^[4]

Avoid attacking with fists. A lot of people hold hands the wrong way and end up hurting themselves. Instead, you can hold your fists and strike with your elbows.

Aim for pain-prone areas. If attacking the opponent, attack sensitive areas such as groin, chest, abdomen, face, knees, feet and hands. ^[5]

Let the opponent lose strength. You should avoid the attack as much as possible, just let the opponent attack and attack continuously. She will soon get tired and the fight will end sooner.

Use the locking lever. Try pinning your opponent to the ground to end the match. The best way to do this is to use the opponent’s own body to take them down. Grab the opponent’s little finger and push it towards the elbow, the whole arm will follow. Next, you will twist your arms behind your back and push your opponent to the ground, resting your knees on the center of your back and holding your hands until she calms down.

Trick your opponent. In a match, tricking the opponent is one of the wisest ways. You can pretend to swing your arms as if you are about to punch, when the opponent grabs your hand, you quickly kick right into the dangerous place.