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This article was co-written by Sarah Schewitz, PsyD. Sarah Schewitz, PsyD is a psychologist with over 10 years of experience helping couples and individuals improve and change love and relationship habits. She is the founder of Couples Learn, an online psychology clinic.
There are 7 references cited in this article that you can see at the bottom of the page.
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Usually, saying “I love you/I love you” at the beginning of a relationship is intimidating. If you have real feelings for that person, show it at the right time. Be bold enough to say love even if you fear your feelings will not be reciprocated. Maybe when you have deep feelings for that person, they also have similar feelings for you. With preparation and confidence, you can easily confess your feelings!
Steps
Choose the right time
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Confess when you feel his love. To determine this, you need to look out for signs in the way they behave. When you know more about that person, you also know the feelings that person has for you. If that person makes you smile, looks at you with loving eyes, and puts you first in life, they probably have deep feelings for you, too. [1] X Research Source
- For example, if your partner cooks you favorite foods or shares feelings with you often, it could be a sign that they love you.
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Express your feelings at the right time. Intuition helps you know when is the right time to speak up about your feelings. You’ll know when the time is right, based on your partner’s body language and your feelings. [2] X Research Source
- The signs that you really love your partner are giving them priority, not looking for new people, and feeling a strong connection and attraction.
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Avoid saying “I love you/I love you” when the relationship is just getting started. You should only express your feelings to that person once you’ve spent time with them and know more about them. That amount of time will depend on each relationship. In general, you should say love when you know that your feelings for them are sincere and sincere. [3] X Research Sources
- It’s great that you have strong feelings for your partner after a few dates, but avoid confessing your feelings until you’re sure. That way, your feelings won’t seem desperate or clingy.
Sarah Schewitz, PsyD
Psychologist specializing in love and relationships
Sarah Schewitz, PsyD is a psychologist with over 10 years of experience helping couples and individuals improve and change love and relationship habits. She is the founder of Couples Learn, an online psychology clinic.
Sarah Schewitz, PsyD
Psychologist specializing in love and relationships
Psychologist specializing in love and relationships
Each person will say ‘I love you/I love you’ at different times. If you just want to let your partner know how you feel and don’t care if they reciprocate, you can express your feelings at any time. If you expect to hear from them, wait a few more months.
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Don’t let him wait too long. If you prolong the time before confessing, the distance between the two of you will grow bigger and bigger, and gradually the person will choose to give up the relationship. Maybe they misunderstand and think that you don’t have feelings for them when they still haven’t received a word of love from you. [4] X Research Sources
- Be confident instead of being afraid of expressing your feelings. Don’t make you regret later.
Confess love
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Encourage yourself before saying “I love you/I love you”. If you’re nervous about expressing your feelings to your partner, take a deep breath and cheer yourself up. You can say “I can do it” or something similar. Remember all the reasons why you love your partner to forget the fear of rejection.
- With reassurance, you will gain confidence and a sense of certainty when confessing.
- You can also say to yourself, “If this is the love of my life, everything will be fine.”
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Directly confess your feelings to that person. The moment you speak out about your feelings is a milestone in a drastic change in the relationship, as you two are officially together. For that reason, you need to observe their facial expressions and reactions when you confess. If possible, it is best to meet the person in person to say you love him. If that’s not possible, you can make a video call. [5] X Research Sources
- Avoid confessing over text or voice calls. You can’t read the person’s expression when confessing through indirect communication.
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Choose a private location to make the confession intimate and special. Avoid expressing your feelings in front of many people. This will make the person feel pressured and confused. Instead, choose to speak out about your feelings at a romantic and intimate time, such as when you’re both having dinner together or spending time together. [6] X Research Sources
- For example, you could cuddle your partner on the sofa and look them in the eye before confessing your feelings.
- Although alcohol contributes to romance and inspiration, you need to avoid confessing while intoxicated. You probably won’t say exactly what you think.
- Make sure you and your partner aren’t busy or distracted at the time you choose to confess. Stress at work or school can affect their mood.
- If you confess to your crush in public, be sure to keep your voice low. You can whisper “I love you/I love you” in their ear to show affection in an intimate way.
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Say “I love you/I love you” at the right time. The perfect time to confess your feelings will depend on the situation. When you feel the time is right, just boldly say what you want to say clearly. You just need to say “I love you/I love you” in a sincere and warm voice. You can express how you feel when you’re having dinner together, going on a picnic, or gazing at the stars. [7] X Research Sources
- If you don’t want to say “I love you/I love you”, you can say “I really care about you” or “My feelings are only for you”. Here are ways to express love without using the word “love”.
- Some other suggestions are “I am the best lover in the world” and “Every day I love you more”.
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Prepare yourself for not being reciprocated. You cannot control the person’s reaction. You probably want them to say “I love you too/I love you too”, but this is something no one can guarantee. If you have deep feelings for that person, let them know, no matter how they react.
- Just because your partner doesn’t immediately respond to your confession doesn’t mean they don’t have deep feelings for you. It’s just that they need time to look back at the relationship and think about their feelings.
Show affection
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Praise the person often. You can say, “This outfit suits me so well” or “You look so pretty with your hair up like this.” This is a way to let your crush know that you care and care about them. [8] X Research Sources
- You can also tell how wonderful they are and how grateful you are to be around your lover.
- For example, you would say “You are the most precious thing I have in my life” and “I don’t know what my life would be like without you”. [9] X Research Source
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It is his spiritual support. Tell that person “I’m always here” to let them know you care. You need to let that person understand that you will be there for them when they are happy and when they are sad, and that you are ready to listen and encourage. That way, that person can trust you and your feelings will grow deeper. [10] X Research Source
- Ask when the person is going through a difficult day. Listen attentively when they speak and say something encouraging like, “You’re great. Don’t worry about what your superiors think.”
- You can also joke a little to put them at ease.
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Kind and attentive. This is a great way to show your love for them. You can do things like give flowers, send a loving message or give a small gift without waiting for a special occasion.
- Besides, you can also cook their favorite food or prepare breakfast.
- Another act of kindness is to always open the door for your girlfriend.
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Give him or her a friendly touch. Gentle touch also speaks to your care and love. When talking, lightly touch the person’s arm, hand, or knee. Hold hands as the two of you go for a walk and touch their backs intimately. These are small gestures that help you show love. [11] X Research Source
- Don’t forget to hug and kiss when you say goodbye.
Advice
- If you’re not sure about your feelings, don’t express your feelings to someone just to make them happy. You need to be sincere and honest when expressing your feelings.
- Everyone has a different way of expressing love. Get to know the person’s personality and appreciate how they show affection.
- One way to help you feel comfortable saying the word “love” is to occasionally mention something that you love about your partner. For example, “I love your brown eyes” (while you wink playfully) or “I love all the food you cook.” These are the cases where you can freely express your feelings.
- Some girls (at least the laid-back ones) will reciprocate the gesture of love, but they may not be ready to accept the three powerful words “I love you”. It’s still a good start, though.
Warning
- Don’t say love just to cover up your mistake or to resolve a conflict. Instead, you should learn to apologize.
- Be careful when saying “I love you/I love you” while having “sex”. Sometimes this is a great opportunity to confess your feelings, but your words may lack sincerity when you are both engulfed in the flames of passion. Don’t forget to give that person kindness and consideration after you say nice words.
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This article was co-written by Sarah Schewitz, PsyD. Sarah Schewitz, PsyD is a psychologist with over 10 years of experience helping couples and individuals improve and change love and relationship habits. She is the founder of Couples Learn, an online psychology clinic.
There are 7 references cited in this article that you can view at the bottom of the page.
This article has been viewed 13,367 times.
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