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This article was co-written by Jan & Jillian Yuhas. Jan Yuhas and Jillian Yuhas are dating coaches, consultants, and founders of Entwined Lifestyle. They specialize in helping individuals and couples improve communication skills, build boundaries, and lead a healthy lifestyle. They have been featured on media channels such as Yahoo Lifestyle and Bustle. Jan and Jillian both have bachelor’s degrees in psychology from the University of Illinois at Chicago, and master’s degrees in marriage and family therapy from the Adler School of Psychology.
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If you’re meeting a guy and you’re getting closer and closer, you’re probably wondering how he feels about you. Luckily, regardless of whether you’re having a crush or hoping to stay friends with him, you can find answers through the signs. Pay attention to his body language and how he behaves around you, along with how your relationship develops. You can also ask someone else’s opinion – but if that doesn’t work, it’s best to ask him directly!
Steps
Observe his body language and behavior
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Notice if he looks you in the eye when you’re nearby? If you catch him looking into your eyes, return his gaze with a smile and hold your gaze for a few seconds. If he doesn’t look away, he’s probably keeping an eye on you, especially when he’s smiling too. [1] X Research Source
- Note, maybe he looks at you because he is aware of your presence or he has a habit of making eye contact.
- On the other hand, some guys often become shy when they have a crush on someone; So the guy who’s into you might not dare to look at you as often.
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Notice how often he smiles when he sees you. When you like someone, you will surely want to smile every time you are with them. If he usually gives you a sunny smile when he meets you, he probably has a crush on you! [2] X Research Source
- However, he may also smile because you two are friends, so don’t jump to conclusions.
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Watch to see if he imitates your gestures. When talking to him or hanging out with him with a group of friends, he probably does the same thing every time you touch his face or hair. Subconsciously mimicking someone’s gestures is a sign that you’ve got their full attention; Maybe he “falls in” for you. [3] X Research Sources
- If you’re looking for an answer this way, you can try a small gesture like pulling the hair from your forehead or adjusting the hem of your shirt, and then notice if he mimics you.
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Watch to see if his body and feet are facing you. We often subconsciously lean towards the person we like and keep our distance from the person we don’t like. As you talk to him, notice if he turns his body toward you or the other way. [4] X Research Sources
- You can also see if his feet are pointing towards you; This is another sign that he is interested in you.
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Have you noticed that he’s nervous or confused around you? Sometimes men become shy in front of the person they like. If you find him blushing, stuttering, or quiet when you approach him, he may have a crush on you or he’s inherently shy. [5] X Research Sources
- If you see this sign in him and you also have feelings for him, smile gently or gently touch his hand to “give the green light”. That way, he will feel more comfortable.
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Notice if he tries to touch you. If he’s always ready for a hug, often touches your arm or shoulder, or tries to get closer to you, it means he has feelings for you. However, it can also be a habit of the guy, so you need to pay attention to how he treats other people. If he just wants to be intimate with you, he probably already likes you. [6] X Research Sources
- If he makes you uncomfortable by touching or getting too close, boldly ask him to stop and take the initiative to keep your distance. Don’t worry about hurting your partner’s feelings. If he is upright, he will apologize and avoid repeating this action. On the contrary, you should definitely stay away from him.
Get to know him
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Notice if he’s always willing to hang out with you? If he’s usually there when you need him and doesn’t mind spending time with you, it’s likely that he has a crush on you. Think again, is he willing to cancel plans with friends when you need him, or does he try to make time for you, even when it’s inconvenient? [7] X Research Sources
- This could also be a sign that the person is a very nice friend. Either way, if you like him, enjoy your time together! Gradually he will develop feelings for you.
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Check to see if he follows you on social media. If you notice him constantly liking your posts or following you on multiple social media platforms, that means he’s interested and wants to know more about you! Of course, if he’s active on social media, it doesn’t make any sense; However, if he doesn’t use social media very often, this is a good sign that he has an eye on you. [8] X Research Sources
- Don’t over-analyze his social media habits. You can see a like on his Instagram as a sign that he is your soulmate, but you will confuse yourself if you rely too much on this factor.
- If he texts you often online but doesn’t talk much when you meet him, he’s probably shy and wants to learn more about you, or he’s building up the courage to ask you out.
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Does he text you for no reason? If he’s texting for no reason at all, that’s a surefire sign that you’re on his mind – and maybe he’s developed feelings for you. He may also use excuses to text you, like asking about the part of the essay he seemed to understand in class.
- Try not to text him too often. That way, he’ll have a chance to text you first.
- If you and the guy are good friends, he simply wants to chat. Remember that you are collecting clues regarding love affairs.
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Notice if he gradually opens up to you. As you get to know him more, he’ll probably start to reveal more personal things related to his life and past. If he’s comfortable confide in you in private, this is a positive sign that he feels close to you and that he has deep feelings for you too. [9] X Research Source
- For example, he won’t hesitate to share problems with a parent or sibling, or reveal difficulties in a previous relationship.
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Does he give you gifts and help you? Men often express emotions through actions instead of words. If he gives you small gifts for no reason at all or tries to help you, this could be a sign that he wants to be more intimate with you. [10] X Research Source
- For example, if you say cold and he hands you his coat, it may sound like he’s being polite, but it could also mean that he wants to protect you because he cares about you.
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Notice if he makes fun of you or compliments you. Men often tease their crush gently, but they will also compliment. However, some people enjoy teasing their friends, while others are generous with compliments; Therefore, you need to pay attention to how he treats other people compared to how he behaves when he meets you. If he’s just doing this to you, this is a good sign. [11] X Research Source
- For example, you dress well to work and he will say, “You are very beautiful today”. On the other hand, he might also tease, “Oh, you’re getting promoted, aren’t you?”.
Warning: If the way he jokes makes you laugh or blush, that’s a lovely gesture. However, it’s not okay if he puts you down or makes you feel bad about yourself. In this case, he’s not the type of guy you should fall in love with.
Find the correct answer
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Ask a friend what he says when you’re not around. If your friends know him, you can try asking them to find out how he feels about you. For example, you would ask them to mention you when you are not around and see what he has to say. [12] X Research Source
- For example, your friend would say, “I feel very pretty today Mai. And how do you feel?”
- If he takes the opportunity to talk about you, he probably has a crush on you. Conversely, if he doesn’t say anything or just says something unkind, you’ll know that there’s nothing special between the two of you.
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Try asking his friends if you’re not ready to ask him. If you really want to know what he thinks but don’t have the courage to ask, try asking his best friend. Of course, they’ll tell him about it, but here’s a way to help answer part of your question.
- You can say, “Hey Son, I’m wondering if Nam likes me. We went out many times, but I was afraid to ask him directly.”
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Ask him directly if you want to know the exact answer. Maybe he’ll tell you the truth if you ask him directly. However, you should do this when it’s just the two of you; because if he feels like he’s the center of attention, he’ll shy away and refuse to answer. [13] X Research Source
- If the two of you are hanging out with a group of friends, you can say, “Can I go buy a drink with you?”. When there’s no one else around, you’ll say, “I’ve been wondering lately what we’re all about. Do you like me more than a friend?”
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Find out indirectly by expressing your feelings. If you’re ready to know how he feels but don’t want to ask him directly, pick a time when it’s just the two of you and tell him how you feel about him. When you say you like him, he’ll probably express the same or opposite feelings. [14] X Research Source
- If you want to be honest, try saying “Nam, I just wanted to say… We’ve been out so many times and you’re such a great friend. But some of my friends think I have feelings for you, and I don’t know how you feel. I just wanted to let you know that.”
- If you like him, you can say, “I don’t know how you feel, but I already like you more than friends.”
Advice: For men, if you’re not sure if he’s gay, you need to first find out if he’s gay in secret.
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Write a note or send a message if you feel embarrassed. Sometimes talking to someone face-to-face can be intimidating. If you don’t have the courage to ask him, try writing or sending a text. That way, you can say everything you want to say and he also has time to think before answering. [15] X Research Source
- You just need to keep it short but sweet, like “I like you and I want to know if you like me?”.
Advice
- Note, although you can tell someone’s feelings by signs, the only sure way is to ask the person; So don’t obsess over the little things!
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This article was co-written by Jan & Jillian Yuhas. Jan Yuhas and Jillian Yuhas are dating coaches, consultants, and founders of Entwined Lifestyle. They specialize in helping individuals and couples improve communication skills, build boundaries, and lead a healthy lifestyle. They have been featured on media channels such as Yahoo Lifestyle and Bustle. Jan and Jillian both have bachelor’s degrees in psychology from the University of Illinois at Chicago, and master’s degrees in marriage and family therapy from the Adler School of Psychology.
There are 11 references cited in this article that you can view at the bottom of the page.
This article has been viewed 553,154 times.
If you’re meeting a guy and you’re getting closer and closer, you’re probably wondering how he feels about you. Luckily, regardless of whether you’re having a crush or hoping to stay friends with him, you can find answers through the signs. Pay attention to his body language and how he behaves around you, along with how your relationship develops. You can also ask someone else’s opinion – but if that doesn’t work, it’s best to ask him directly!
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